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Girl said "Why do you only text me when you want to meet up?"

July 21, 2021
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Some might remember me from "What to do with a girl who is boring at texting but great in person?" that I asked few days ago in this subreddit.

Everyone told me to text her only when I wanted to meet up, and so I did.

Last time I did that she said "Why do you only text me when you want to meet up?"

So what should I do? I think it is a huge shit test.

I think confronting her is a bad idea and it will make me seem like a pathetic loser.

Should I say something like "Because I like talking face to face with you."

And yeah that's it. Cheers.

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Title Girl said "Why do you only text me when you want to meet up?"
Author ornitooo
Upvotes 10
Comments 17
Date July 21, 2021 6:04 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/girl-said-why-do-you-only-text-me-when-you-want-to.1095061
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[–]lolomotif12 12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Had this recently myself, it's a shit test. Just say you're busy and active, usually doing something and you prefer face to face interaction with her.

Women are used to men constantly messaging them and giving them attention, when you don't they turn into a child that's toy has been taken away from them.

There are some women out there who are not but the majority do want your frequent attention and validation when you're not with them.

You shouldn't just go radio silent, this method is for people who are absolute idiots when it comes to text game. Have the occasional flirt, sext, let her initiate 80% of the time you focus on your mission and build up for a meet up.

[–]the1truthteller 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I would agree with this. Just genuinely be busy and active. She’ll respect you more if you’ve got shit to do and you’re on your mission. Shows that you prefer to live in the real world rather than phone world.

[–]ajajaj99 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

To be new to TRP you got a good sense of this. Yes plausible deniability. If you confront her she will give push back. State you just really enjoy the energy between you two in person. Continue to only text her about logistics.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Agree and amplify: say you'll text her more then blow up her phone at 3 AM.

Jokes aside, your right and this is a weird thing to ask. Looks like she wants to move the relationship backwards. I like the idea of keeping up what you're doing and saying that you like talking with her in person.

[–]ornitooo[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Is there a difference between "I like talking to you in person" and "I like talking in person"

Which one should I say?

Should I tell it in general?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I prefer "I prefer talking to you in person". But this could be said any way you want.

Should I tell it in general?

What do you mean?

[–]CoyoteMiyamoto 4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Is this the woman you told that you loved her?

[–]ornitooo[S] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Yup. After that thing I started to get out of her frame. And I think that made her kinda angry.

Could this be the reason? Is she trying to lure me into her frame again?

I texted her "I like talking to you in person". Should I just next her if she ghosts me?

[–]CoyoteMiyamoto 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

How many times have you met in total and did you have any legitimate action?

[–]ornitooo[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

We met 2 more times after that, once outside and once at my place.

And If you mean sex with legitimate action, no we didn't have sex yet, only foreplay. (I live in a country which sex is shown as a bad thing if you are young. But if I keep her long enough I might be able to do that.)

[–]CoyoteMiyamoto 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

You're wasting way too much energy for this woman. She hasn't even given you some action yet. Also, be careful. If there are societal repercussions for being intimate, she could potentially ruin your reputation if she's desperate enough.

[–]ornitooo[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah I think I am wasting too much energy but the reason is she is a hottie.

She probably has shit ton of guys that are way more attractive than me she can choose, yet she chose me over them.

I know I can't be with her forever, I know its just my turn with her.

[–]CoyoteMiyamoto 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Text her when you feel like texting her, but don't play stupid shit like "hey what would you do if..." and don't engage in her attention seeking games.

And next time she asks you some ignorant bullshit about why you're only texting her when you want to meet her you respond that you don't have the time for chitchat and you're about real connections. The fuck? She has to grow up.

You HAVE to meet new women. Don't talk to one girl only.

[–]mrpthrowa 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Why do you only text me when you want to meet up?"

reply: you should worry when I DON'T want to meet up.

[–]Bawtist 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think it is a huge shit test.

I concur.

Should I say something like "Because I like talking face to face with you."

I suggest something like : " Do you have something to send to me at midnight ?!" with a suggestive amused face expression.

[–]Meloxian 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Aa: say you’ll Text her more after you’ve already met up

[–]I_Dont_Type 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

DARE bro, not DEER.

“Yeah we should sext more”

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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