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Going to a restaurant with a female friend, please help.

September 28, 2021

We just haven't seen each other in a while (I mean we did but had no chance to really talk) so we agreed to meet. We haven't decided yet where exactly we are going but there's a 99% chance it's one of two places, neither is too fancy, but it's definitely not fast food or anything like that, they are places you could to go to an a first date. We have known each other for 3+ years, and while we never got physical, there is definitely a little bit of flirting going on. Nothing crazy but I feel like if I played my cards right then there would be quite a large chance of us fucking. Now, my problem is that I'm a tard when it comes to seduction. I have no problem making friends / talking to women (as friends) but I'm inexperienced when it comes to seducing someone. Any advice? (yes I know I could screw up the friendship so any idea how not to if I'm not successful?)

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Title Going to a restaurant with a female friend, please help.
Author NewAccount1289
Upvotes 4
Comments 4
Date September 28, 2021 5:04 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]Here4th3culture 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I wouldn’t. Working from the friend to the romantic interest hardly works outside of television.

[–]throwitdownman 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’d be shocked if you went from an orbiter for three years to sex after one date. Post an update for us!

[–]GunzBlazein180 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well you have to actually be real with yourself. If you been around 3 years and nothings ever happened what makes you think she’ll magically change now?

We haven’t decided yet where exactly we are going

There is no we, if you’re paying for it which I assume you are, then you’re going to a place you want to go and she’s just there to keep you company. Don’t go expecting sex go expecting a good time and flirt with plausible deniability. Look up more on escalation on TRP

[–]Give_Praise_Unto_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Attempt to escalate and see what happens but she might've put you in orbit already.

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