I’ve been with my LTR for two years. She is the first girl I’ve ever felt truly loved by, and quite literally bends over backwards for me. Always willing to do anything to keep me satisfied in bed, always willing to show her loyalty, even spending resources on me. I know she isn’t love bombing me, because her attitude has remained consistent for the entirety of the relationship. There’s just one caveat… Her n-count is 20 at 23. I know the typical rule is to multiply by 3, but I’m fairly sure 20-25 is close to accurate as I’ve gotten 3 different numbers from her, and she finally admitted to this number after a few drinks (yes I know I you’re not supposed to ask). Most of her lays were after a breakup, she sort of just flew off the rails for 1 year and then they tapered off just before she met me.

I fucking KNOW that typical red-pill ideology says to run, run, run… But I’m hoping a couple of the OG’s can put aside the black and white rules and chime in here because EVEN fucking plates was not as fulfilling as being with this girl. None of my prior relationships match up to the feeling of being with her, and I’ve been with significantly lower n-count woman before. Don’t get me wrong, I can easily replace her, because I’m young and have a higher-than-average SMV due to my income & looks, but I simply don’t have the desire due to getting everything I want from her. I know without a shadow of doubt, based on her actions, that she views me as her best option. She completely and utterly adores the floor I walk on, and I’ve never experienced that in my life. I feel like the epitome of an alpha around her - a fucking king. This makes me contemplate marrying her if things continue to go well in the long term.

So is it a big deal if I continue to date this girl long term? And if she shows good behavior, possibly go further? Or would I be shooting myself in the foot?