How do you endure hard times?

patrickbirch · 2022-08-13T20:46:35+00:00

The perspective I always have is that if this is rock bottom, then the only way is up. In reality not many people know what this is really like, you have a roof over you head, you’re fit to work, you have access to a gym; great this is all you need to build a great foundation for a good life.

In life you are only going to get out what you put in, if you are lazy and complacent then you aren’t going to get much out of life, if you are productive and ambitious then you are going to get a lot out of life; much more than most people because the majority of people are the former.

But the simple truth is that you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and get shit done, it doesn’t matter what life throws at you the worst thing you can do is throw a pity party and spend the rest of your life acting like a victim.

Your time on this world is finite, you have to realise that one day you will die, until you know that, you are useless. I don’t understand why you feel at 19 years old you have no energy because you are in your prime but it sounds like you have a lot of wasted energy in your life. Forget about women, partying and shit that won’t make you life productive and start getting in shape and building a good future for yourself by educating yourself and working hard.

Also you have not ruined your life, you are 19, every mistake you make at that age feels like the end of the world but it isn’t, you are still learning and are not the person yet that you have the potential of being.

Once again, put in the work, stop being a pussy and get on with it.

319Skew · 2022-08-13T21:33:34+00:00

You're 19. That's still young. Short of murder or deleting yourself, you'd got enough time to set up your successful.

Refect on what you want, what you're willing to pay for it and eliminate what's holding you back.

That-Potential-5684 · 2022-08-13T23:21:15+00:00

Lifting heavy weight at the gym and combat sports for a total of 5xweek.

yellowliar · 2022-08-15T21:25:42+00:00

There can never be an up without a down

Nothing lasts forever

Also if you don’t have enough energy for what you want to do, you probably either just don’t have the right why or you don’t actually love the thing you’re doing

Reward_Intelligent · 2022-08-19T01:39:47+00:00

Red bull, gatorade, filtered coffee. That's what you do.

BlueGlacier2 · 2022-09-07T08:19:02+00:00

Literally just hit the gym. Get sun. Laugh at how absurd this world is daily. Meet cute girls. Play outside. Don’t spend too much time online. Ask for way more than you think you deserve.

Only way out is through. Gas pedal

Title	How do you endure hard times?
Author	DramaticIndividual21
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	August 13, 2022 8:04 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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