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How to deal with girls that won’t leave their friends

September 27, 2021

When I go out to bars/clubs I am really good at approaching/isolating/escalating but deal with many girls that make out with me and are attracted to me but when I go for the pull - “Let’s grab a drink across the street”, “Let’s grab a drink at my apartment”, they often say they can’t leave their friends.

I usually try to push a bit and if they don’t agree I’ll get their number and try to get them on a date during the week which has worked. I’ve also tried sticking in the set for a bit longer and meeting her friends, building comfort which also had worked but only if the girl is highly attracted to me.

Do you guys have any ideas on how to deal with this objection? How can I overcome it and get these girls to come home with me the same night?

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Title How to deal with girls that won’t leave their friends
Author Defiant_Mess5346
Upvotes 6
Comments 6
Date September 27, 2021 3:56 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/how-to-deal-with-girls-that-wont-leave-their.1095155
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[–]popular_with_ladies 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

She doesn't want to look like a hoe to her friends. You've got the right idea by trying to help her separate from her friends to protect her reputation.

Try to make it more convenient for her to leave at an acceptable time (closer to bar close is perfect time), otherwise get her number and move onto the next one. If she's still there when it's socially acceptable to leave, hit her up again and close.

[–]Defiant_Mess5346[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah that’s what I figured. A lot of girls (even if they are attracted to you) don’t want to look slutty in front of their friends and often whether or not they go home with you depends on how drunk they are. When they’re more drunk they care less about looking slutty, etc. Do you think it’s a good idea to reapproach a girl around closing time? I feel like that would prevent me from seeing them on a date but wonder if it could work to pull them back to my place?

[–]popular_with_ladies 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Reapproaching is the highest reward for least effort. Takes what, 5-10 minutes to reconnect then suggest a move elsewhere versus 2 hours for a date?

Also, a date is way more conservative than chilling at the club. You're gonna have a harder time suggesting to fuck on the first date (based on my experience, YMMV).

[–]Defiant_Mess5346[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah man I really don’t like dates. It’s way harder and more effort for me to bang a girl from a date than when I’m with her at the club. But My date game is also not very good. I will try reapproaching next time. How would you end the conversation? Just say it was nice meeting them and you’ll come find them later?

[–]popular_with_ladies 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

No don't say that, just say something casual like see ya around.

Hoes love it when things are by chance so if you bump into them at the end of the night be like oh heyy remember me? how's your night yada yada yada want to get some drinks at somewhere else (hinting apartment). Worst case she says no but you already have her number and she knows you're not a pussy

[–]Defiant_Mess5346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds good bro appreciate the advice. That sounds like a good idea.

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