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How to deal with zero animalistic instinct / motivation to pursue women?

September 11, 2022

I have zero animalistic instinct to approach or sexually pursue women. I would consider myself a driven person: I workout and have an exceptional physique, am an executive at a company and make a lot of money. I'm driven towards accomplishing goals, achieving objectives and obtaining power. All of these have a logical and predictable outcome. I don't see the point in pursuing women; it feels like a stupid game for a chance to get laid which doesn't feel nearly as good as accomplishing a goal that improves your position in life. I don't even see the point in long term relationships; I've had a lot and I'm honestly just tired of women at this point.

I can tell that given my position, I attract a lot of women, but I just don't see the long term benefit in hooking up randomly, even though I'm definitely sexually attracted to women. Whenever I feel the intense urge when I see an attractive women, or any emotion for that matter, I simply channel it into whatever productive task I'm doing and become much more effective at doing it.

However, I also know that this animalistic instinct is obviously attractive to women, so I'm wondering how I can regain it? I almost miss having that intense drive to do that, before learning how to channel all my feelings into productivity.

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Title How to deal with zero animalistic instinct / motivation to pursue women?
Author That_Zexi_Guy
Upvotes 5
Comments 2
Date September 11, 2022 11:17 AM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/how-to-deal-with-zero-animalistic-instinct.1131427
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/xbfyvm/how_to_deal_with_zero_animalistic_instinct/
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[–]319Skew 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great job on yourself. You've got a great bod and a good head on your shoulders.

Your posts don't give me an impression that you would struggle to find women.

So, I would ask you why do you want to pursue women?

Aside from a family and sexual release, there's little women bring and a lot that any relationship costs.

But if you are happy and satisfied with your life then you DON'T NEED to bring a woman into it.

You can choose to have a string of casual relationships.

I also feel like your inability to want to chase could stem from a focus on the cost of what a woman is.

I could be wrong but I don't think it's a fear of approaching or lack of options for you but you've trained yourself to focus on what having a woman costs and instead put your effort into getting another goal.

[–]BlackjointnerD 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bro having a intimate relationship with a woman is fun af. Its a beautiful thing.

Why would you not want a soft pretty naked girl to play with?. Have some ease about it. Your relationships with women are on your terms. Maybe you just havent met a smart girl you actually like.

Have a human connection with these chicks. Even if your non monogamous.

Makes the sex better. I feel like if you knew the depths of pleasure this question would be different. Just be productive and explore your relationships with women more. Other than being robotic with them.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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