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How to get out of a dry spell

August 29, 2021

In the past few months I started doing really well with pulling girls from bars/clubs due to improving my SMV (lifting, etc.). For a while I felt really confident when going out and would get tons of IOIs, etc. However in the past few weeks I feel my energy going away, I’m not as confident in my approaches and struggle to make conversation. I even started getting approach anxiety and self doubts like “This girl won’t like me” etc. This has led me to be in a dry spell for a month.

It’s crazy to me because just a few weeks ago I was the most confident guy in the room and every girl was looking at me. Even when girls give me strong IOIs I will approach them and barely have any energy/confidence or game because of being in a dry spell. I keep getting the negative thoughts and feel down on myself. Are there any good strategies to get out of this?

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Title How to get out of a dry spell
Author Defiant_Mess5346
Upvotes 3
Comments 3
Date August 29, 2021 3:31 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
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[–]thiikn 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

force yourself to approach, count to 3 and go. straight approaches, in which you'll have a yes or no within 10s. it'll work (maybe after a couple of negatives) and you'll be back. then you may go back to approaching your way

[–]TrenGod37 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

two words.

Outcome independence.

You’re there to have fun. Have a good time. And create a good memory/story.

That’s it. Everything else is meaningless. Focus on that and that alone. And watch what happens.

Too many guys put such pressure on getting a number or a girl. Then if they’re on a run they feel on top of the world. They go on a dry streak and they’re depressed. Fuck that. Abundance. You can have any girl you want. Seriously.

So who gives a fuck what you say or if one of them don’t like you. Who fucking cares. Have fun. Be an experience. And the world will be yours.

I wrote a post a while back on this. Being an experience. Read it.

[–]RedLantern- 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Can’t find it. Do you remember the title?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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