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I deleted my social media a year ago and now I'm thinking about getting back on? is it required to live in the modern day for dating?

September 12, 2022
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Thinking about starting up a Instagram and just posting cool pics of me doing cool stuff. I'm in a way better place then I was before I deleted it, as I'm in school and have a good career waiting for me when I finish. Just afraid of getting addicted and truly worrying about what other people are doing and not just myself.

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Title I deleted my social media a year ago and now I'm thinking about getting back on? is it required to live in the modern day for dating?
Author PaleoPimp
Upvotes 7
Comments 6
Date September 12, 2022 9:00 PM UTC (4 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/i-deleted-my-social-media-a-year-ago-and-now-im.1131251
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[–]Hermit41 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I kinda am at the point where you are when you deleted it I just deactivated mine tho temporarily but at the moment have no intention of going back. I can honestly saying a feeling of anxiety is gone, which came from feeling so connected to ppl I shouldnt have been to and that probably don’t even care about me. I feel more myself then ever i.e the time spent watching what other people are doing im investing in me meditating journaling spending time with myself etc. I been finding it easier and kinda pushed to talk to women in real life and don’t feel like I’m comparing my life to other peoples anymore which of course could’ve been my own flaw but regardless. I’ve only seen pluses from getting off social media. If you feel like it’s about dating just have a tinder and take some cool pics but if not bro go out and meet women in real life the results are better

[–]PB0034 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Username checks out

I agree with everything you said

[–]acidbath6464 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

My experience is very similar. I second this.

[–]YungMattro 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You can always try it and see how how you feel. Being mindful/self aware is key.

[–]acidbath6464 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

There are pros and cons to not having social media but overall my mental health is much better without it. Less anxiety, stress, fomo, not comparing my life to others or feeling less than as much, etc. Overall try it out for a month and see for yourself.

[–]MrAnderzon 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you’re good looking. Then yes have a social media

If you’re not. It will hurt you.

LinkedIn might be the exception but regardless first rule applies

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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