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I dumped my gf and 2 weeks later she got a rebound and is posting him everywhere. What am I supposed to do?

Durantysonali
July 1, 2022
4 upvotes
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Even posting pics of them together in her bed. I believe she's doing this to make me jealous or get a reaction from me or maybe just moved on.

My question is tho, how am I supposed to react to this shit? I dumped her yet for some reason I feel like I was dumped because she moved on fast.

I have a lot of mixed feelings about this. I think I shouldn't care because I dumped her, but at the same time I feel like a doormat for not doing anything about it. But then if I do something (like try to make her jealous too posting myself with girls) I'd be falling in her game.

What does a redpilled guy do in a situation like this?

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Title I dumped my gf and 2 weeks later she got a rebound and is posting him everywhere. What am I supposed to do?
Author Durantysonali
Upvotes 4
Comments 25
Date July 1, 2022 12:20 AM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/i-dumped-my-gf-and-2-weeks-later-she-got-a-rebound.1121913
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[–]Ironside29 11 points12 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Why would you have her on social media or look at her shit after you dumped her?

[–]Durantysonali[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I only had her on Whatsapp and I blocked there but she has me unblocked and still got me added so I can still see her profile pic but that's it

[–]Pluglord 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Bruh huh? Tell the truth.

[–]Durantysonali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What you mean? I never added her on facebook or IG. I have seen what she posts on facebook though.

We only communicated through whatsapp. I don't know what part you think I'm not telling the truth?

Edit: I don't know if you're talking about her having me unblocked? She has me unblocked and still got me added on her whatsapp cause I can still see her profile pic. I haven't lied bout anything here.

[–]iJuiiCe_x 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If you dumped this girl why are you still following her on social media?

Obviously, you still care. That's why it bothers you and you're posting this.

I would personally delete her socials. Block maybe

[–]Durantysonali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

"If you dumped this girl why are you still following her on social media?"

I blocked her a month ago (the breakup was almost 2 months ago). It was a huge mistake not blocking her immediately after dumping her. I didn't expect her to turn so fucking vindictive. Lesson learned tho, next time I'm blocking immediately.

"Obviously, you still care. That's why it bothers you and you're posting this."

And I'm not denying this, but that's the thing I don't understand.

During the relationship I really didn't care much about her and didn't even like her like that. I treated her almost like a plate or FWB and she was always chasing me. I can say I never acted beta with her. The last weeks of our relationship I was already done and wanted to breakup.I ghosted her for a week and she texted me and I dumped her over text. She wasn't expecting it and became dramatic and begged me.

Even after the breakup I still didn't care about her. I started caring when I saw her with a new guy. Maybe it's my ego. Maybe it's the fact that she started posting things trying to get back at me and I just stayed quiet not reacting.

It's crazy to think that I literally didn't give a shit about her during the relationship and after I dump her I'm acting almost like I have oneitis. But I know it's not really oneitis cause I'm not sad over her, I'm just mad that she's being this vindictive. But I should've known she was going to do something like this because of the way I dumped her.

[–]beardestbird 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ignore her and develop yourself. Trust me. You get a hotter girl and bette relationship she’s gonna feel bad

[–]Hellarepups 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It’s exactly how she wants you to feel. That post was probably just to get back at you, she probably took forever to post you. Whatever pain in the ass she was, she still is. He gotta deal with it now. Stay on you grind. Don’t deactivate your account. Don’t react at all. Feeling will pass.

[–]Durantysonali[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Actually I never let her post me on her social media, not even on her stories. Like I said in another post I treated her like a plate/fwb.

I also never had her on facebook or followed her on IG. We only communicated through whatsapp and I blocked her there.

The main reason I blocked her on whatsapp it's because there you can easily watch her stories on hidden mode and I didn't want her to think I'm secretly watching her shit.

[–]1tayg3r 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just quit social media bruh. It's now an attention seeking platform filled with left-wing blue pilled simps and egoistical girls seeking validation.

[–]Mantarraya8 9 points10 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

You become a higher market male by investing in yourself. Women are emotional they want you to react. Delete or deactivate until necessary. Spin plates if you are high enough and stop with oneitis; so you don’t feel this way again. Abundance mindset, upgrade her.

[–]Durantysonali[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I already got better options than her.

I got to admit it pisses me off that she's being petty and vindictive though, like she's actively trying to make me react or that she might think she's breaking me with her petty shit.

Im just glad I'm the one that ended things and she begged at the end and I left her on read. I know she big mad about that.

[–]Muuuunayoo 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Why you care if you dumped her bro? That’s clownish. You guys are broken up, regardless if she’s petty or vindictive she doesn’t owe you anything. She can do as she pleases.

[–]Durantysonali[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I needed to hear something like this.

I don't get it neither man. Why tf do I care? If she had dumped me it would be understandable, but I dumped her, Idk why I give a shit.

And I know she's free to do whatever she wants, I haven't reacted to anything she does other than blocking her.

[–]ItsNotD 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bro I was on the same boat as you once, dumped a chick but still weirdly cared after.

It's only natural, literally human nature, but will go away after some time.

The more girls you dump in future, the easier this gets too.

[–]Sudden-Complaint7037[M] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

dumps gf

gets mad when she gets a new partner

uhh hello female behaviour department?

[–]Durantysonali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol legit man what tf I'm thinking. I'm the one that got away I don't know why tf I'm worrying.

[–]MusicgoonV2 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

She's not your girlfriend anymore. She can do what she wants. You still care.

[–]Durantysonali[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

"She's not your girlfriend anymore. She can do what she wants."

I know that, especially since I'm the dumper I shouldn't even care. But since she's clearly doing a lot of that stuff trying to hurt me or whatever, I was all confused thinking am I supposed to be offended? Why are you trying to get my attention or make me react when I dumped you? I guess that's what chicks do trying to feel in control or try to boost thei buised ego after being dumped. Who knows, her mind games got to me I'll give her that but now I'm at peace knowing I dumped her and I shouldn't care while she's going to continue being butthurt doing the most trying to make react just cause she can't handle being rejected.

[–]MusicgoonV2 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Look Buddy. She moved on. I suggest you do the same. You're very deep in her frame. If you were dating multiple women you wouldn't give a shit.

[–]Meloxian 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

She had another guy in mind, forced you to dump her by acting like a bitch/manipulating you to and swung to a higher branch.

You feel like you got dumped because you did. Just not overtly.

You got played like a fiddle.

Move on.

[–]Durantysonali[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Not really. When I dumped her over text she sent me more than 50 texts begging me to see her so she can get closure and just left her on read. The following days she started posting om fb about what an asshole I am and that I hurt her feelings.

2 weeks later she met someone and I'm sure it's a new guy she met after the breakup

[–]beardestbird 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

100% rebound

[–]Durantysonali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Prolly the other guy had an experience like that and was projecting cause that was way too specific.

I can post screenshots of her texts begging lol. They're in spanish though. And she was posting stuff about me on her profile on whatsapp, the most dramatic thing she wrote was "Free me of this sentence. My soul is so sad without you. I'll wait for you my entire life in this endless sea of tears" (in spanish). She also wrote another thing about me "betraying" her and hurting her. I took screenshots of all that stuff she wrote too just in case.

[–]319Skew 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Seduce her new man.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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