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I was actually an asshole, how do I forgive myself?

February 20, 2022

In my relationship with my fwb I started reading some rp stuff and started spergging the fuck out. I ignored her intentionally for 3 days because she said something I didn’t like.

I did this 2 more times to “reset the power dynamic”. <—— sperg. When she came to see me I didn’t give her a hug, stupid shit like that and the last time I saw her was passive aggressive as fuck towards her and she has not responded to my text.

Wondering how to forgive myself for actually being an asshole. I made her insanely happy in the beginning and literally threw everything in the trash.

Edit: I don’t want her to think of me in a bad light. I want to leave girls better than they were and I completely trashed this one

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Title I was actually an asshole, how do I forgive myself?
Author TRP_Squid
Upvotes 1
Comments 6
Date February 20, 2022 2:41 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/i-was-actually-an-asshole-how-do-i-forgive-myself.1103955
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[–]KillaKyleKlan 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

You sound very soft dude...harden up a little. Have an abundance mindset, it's just one girl out of billions. You can't think about what happened if your doing hobbies and hanging out with your friends. Go do something like a hobby or work on improving yourself. If she comes back to you, then she comes back. If she doesn't, go find another girl or numerous girls.

[–]TRP_Squid[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I am I recognize that. This was one of my first sexual experiences. I’m still trying to figure everything out in terms of navigating the game.

How do I harden up?

[–]KillaKyleKlan 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Just have a mentality of knowing that everything is going to work out no matter what happens with this girl. Just try your hardest not to let your emotions run you... Women run on emotions, they forget about the big picture (logic)... So be logical.

[–]holyshocker 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I don’t want her to think of me in a bad light.

Every single girl who talks about her ex thinks of him in a bad light since he is no longer with her. Stop caring about saving ho's and save yourself.

[–]TRP_Squid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]yungelonmusk 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dam this is deep

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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