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If there is mutual attraction between you and a girl, what would make them nervous or standoffish toward you?

June 20, 2022
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Met a girl and she may or may not have a bf, but she's into me. I'm a good looking guy. We had a class together and we were together for a project twice a week for a couple weeks. But now she won't even make eye contact with me or tries to keep her eyes away from me. Def some tension between us and I guess she doesn't like it.

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Title If there is mutual attraction between you and a girl, what would make them nervous or standoffish toward you?
Author PaleoPimp
Upvotes 2
Comments 5
Date June 20, 2022 9:27 PM UTC (7 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
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[–]patrickbirch 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Approach, worst she could say is no. Sounds as if you didn’t strike while the iron was hot and you wanted her to make the first move. Next time you see her ask her out; if she says yes, great, if she’s says no then take it as a lesson: don’t bide your time and go for it.

[–]PaleoPimp[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

It's really possible she has a boyfriend, so it's a difficult situation. We don't talk much, only when I approach her. Idk if I should talk to her or just let things be until her "boyfriend" becomes less important to her. She seems like a very shy girl and I brought her out of her shell with my good humor and flirty vibes. As of now, I'm just minding my own business cause idk if I wanna be Chad or not.

[–]patrickbirch 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

If you don’t know ask her, she’s clearly not a friend so it’s not like you would be sacrificing a friendship. What have you got to lose. There’s also no point flirting if you aren’t going to escalate, girl’s gay friends flirt with them and at the moment you are one of her girlfriends. You have nothing to lose so just ask her.

[–]PaleoPimp[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

If she does have a boyfriend, what would you do? Pursue or pass?

[–]patrickbirch 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Pass

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