This is a question that’s been scratching my mind and I want to hear some good answers.

If you tell people that you’re “just working on yourself etc” many times they’ll be like “so you have a lot of insecurities lol”

Is the word insecurity not misused a lot then? Should there be another way of saying it(if that makes sense)?

Just because you’re not ready to date around and are working on yourself doesn’t mean you’re “insecure”