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Is it normal to feel hindered or backwards when in a relationship? Slowed improvements?

December 4, 2021

I often miss doing things on my own, and I've observed this while being in a relationship. And I think it just depends on the partner but any growth is cut in half. How can you mend this kind of lifestyle if you want to establish a serious relationship?

Examples, I had to reduce my workout time because I needed to spend time with her. Because I had to remove hours from my reading, hanging out, spinning, I feel less stimulated. Giving time is, of course, necessary in a relationship, but it felt exhausting at times.

It seems like I was 10 times more productive being single. We always have to improve. And I remember just getting a little bored with my past relationships. Not humble bragging but isn't being a relationship contradictory?

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Title Is it normal to feel hindered or backwards when in a relationship? Slowed improvements?
Author budcraw0
Upvotes 2
Comments 2
Date December 4, 2021 2:58 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
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[–]beardestbird 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You don’t NEED to do anything in a relationship. You choose do those things.

You’re putting the pussy on a pedastal and bending over backwards for her. Instead of focusing on what you want you’re bending to what she wants. Next thing you know she’s gonna look up and say “you’ve changed”

Honestly just start focusing on you more and doing what you want/need more. That’s what I would do. I’m sure other guys can answer better relationship advice but I would not hinder my goals and plans for a relationship.

[–]budcraw0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great advice

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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