I often miss doing things on my own, and I've observed this while being in a relationship. And I think it just depends on the partner but any growth is cut in half. How can you mend this kind of lifestyle if you want to establish a serious relationship?

Examples, I had to reduce my workout time because I needed to spend time with her. Because I had to remove hours from my reading, hanging out, spinning, I feel less stimulated. Giving time is, of course, necessary in a relationship, but it felt exhausting at times.

It seems like I was 10 times more productive being single. We always have to improve. And I remember just getting a little bored with my past relationships. Not humble bragging but isn't being a relationship contradictory?