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Is it normal to feel unproductive in relationships?? She just literally wanted to cuddle

April 18, 2022

Stayed over with a (yet to decide on) LTR. The main thing that keeps me away from relationships is literally she would pancake or watch films over a weekend like there's no tomorrow.

2 weekends are alright, we all need some R&R, and cuddling ain't that bad to the mental health but unless if the sex is absolutely bonkers, which is one of my priorities (but hard to find good sex-vibes nowadays) this whole relationship thing drains me and we ain't even doing nothing.

I understand that it was a whole full week of spring break but she literally wanted to lay down, get fucked, lay down some more, watch some stupid netflix about make believe monarchs like wtf.

Then the ones you try to seek, the ones who are active and want to actually atleast work out a little while staying over, are always on the move that it's hard to try to date 1 without being measured.

I liked her and exes like these to bits but my god. Is it because I'm used to this bachelor type of lifestyle where I'm always on the go, always want to improve?

Is it scientifically documented that guys who get in relationships have slower growths (status, money, business etc) is this the exchange for some absolute mental ease?

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Title Is it normal to feel unproductive in relationships?? She just literally wanted to cuddle
Author budcraw0
Upvotes 7
Comments 3
Date April 18, 2022 3:43 AM UTC (11 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
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[–]Don_Draper27 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Is she ball and chaining you to the couch all weekend? You're the one that's deciding to spend your time with her and waste the weekend away.

What are you expecting? For her to pull out her laptop and invest in stocks for you?

Everything is in your court. Even sex. The lack of the sex that you want is your responsibility.

Fuck her brains out, cuddle for a few if you fucking want, then get up and say you're going to the gym, and that she's welcome to come with you.

[–]319Skew 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No. That's not an LTR girl. It's also not healthy for her to just be that lazy.

[–]TheZimboKing 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

She is a girl and you are a man. She wants to relax and you want to win. It's your job to unpin yourself from her and make her proud as a winning man

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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