It's sad to see girls who are in such bad shape, you almost want to change them, but you know that they have to do it themselves. How do they not realize this?

You know it's their problem and only theirs. But I don't get how they don't realize that they really have a problem. Didn't realize this girl is a full on alcoholic until I went out with her and some friends. Such a cool chick and she is looking for a relationship. Once I saw how she really is, in terms of drinking alcohol, I can't be involved with her. I did my fair share of drinking but she is just on a whole other level. Everybody does their fair share and then grow tf up. But some people don't I guess.