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Sex on first date and immediate test responses after first date but delayed response after asking for second date. Long ass post but want to give details bear with me thanks in advance

July 16, 2022

edit: typo in title immediate text responses*

Girl was replying instantly after sleeping with her on first date but after I mention another date she takes two days to respond only right before the day I wanted to meet her saying “I’m down to meet but my reply is way too late isn’t it?”

I can’t post all the details for some reason here but you can read more on my profile where I posted on /datingadvice

It’s a long ass post

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Title Sex on first date and immediate test responses after first date but delayed response after asking for second date. Long ass post but want to give details bear with me thanks in advance
Author B1ackswans
Upvotes 6
Comments 13
Date July 16, 2022 7:58 PM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/sex-on-first-date-and-immediate-test-responses.1123549
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/w0p0o0/sex_on_first_date_and_immediate_test_responses/

[–]319Skew 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Too little info.

Could be you're cock #34 and she's got another prospect, weak pipe game, she's busy... Etc.

[–]TheNaughtyGarbageMan 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The fact that you came here and posted all of this shows you're way too invested and she probably senses it. Stop caring so much

[–]BlackjointnerD 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

Maybe to make sure you arent a clinger or get attached to fast.

How long did you wait to ask for a second date?

[–]B1ackswans[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

maybe to make sure you aren’t a clinger or get attached to fast

I think this is most reasonable because she could have just ghosted me or took longer to reply at the start. I think she wants to make sure I am who I really am — the person she felt I was that made her want to fuck me initially

We discussed a second date at the end of first date and she eventually told me her availability and said I should text her when I’m available so we can meet up. I told her the following Sunday should be good and that I would text her to confirm within the next few days. Texted her the next day after the first date with a few text msg exchanges and told her I could do Sunday then that’s when she took a two days to respond to say “yeah im down but I took too long to respond right?”

Just feels like a test rather than disinterest

Edit: the reason I haven’t responded yet is because honestly regardless of it being a test or not, if I feel like we’re playing games or that I’m not prioritized, I don’t like to interact with that person. It’s almost like the same way with how I would treat other people, guy or girl. Just not worth my time and energy. However, I do understand that it takes time and excellent communication for relationships to develop, and that’s with anybody — friend, family, women. I want to make it clear that this is not something I want to tolerate even though I know deep down she’s attractive as fuck and checks a lot boxes for what I find desirable in a woman

[–]BlackjointnerD 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Bro.....its only been one date. Really understand and digest that. I know that you like her but you dont know her or her life yet....try not to make a big deal about it and be straightforward in wanting to meet her and have more fun and let it be for now. She got back to you and shes interested in that, set it and leave it alone.

If she was your girlfriend thats different. But you shouldnt be too salty, maybe a bit thrown off sure.

And please go on dates with other women!!!

[–]B1ackswans[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

So do I meet her today?today is Sunday, the day I asked her to meet

I don’t know what you mean by set it and leave it alone

[–]BlackjointnerD 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I would just set another day and do some small chit chat to get a feel and reconnect with her that way.

Use that time in between to work on yourself and talk to another girl.

[–]Frequent-Device4942 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The intentional ignore is a psychological weapon, a subtle, dishonest, indirect and inferior way of insulting someone. Someone with honesty and integrity would insult openly and honestly. Someone with a lack of honesty would choose a more dishonest and indirect method of insulting someone.

[–]Frequent-Device4942 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Test or not, the fact is the delayed text responses are essentially a subtle insult and a psychological weapon. A delayed text essentially is a subtle, indirect, and thus subpar method of telling you you’re worthless, stupid, not worth much, inferior to the person doing it, etc.

You have four main options when it happens. Do nothing and move on or wait for them to reply. Beg and plead for a response. Double text but do it in a more casual normal way instead of doing it in a begging needy way.

Or, depending on how you behold yourself, you could insult them verbally, and sabotage the entire relationship. If youve known them a while you likely know about their moral/behavioral problems. I wouldn’t insult someones looks or race etc because of morals or karma. But any behavior or personality trait is fair game to be insulted. By doing this, you get to preserve your moral integrity and potentially remove any ego strokes the person received from intentionally ignoring you. Most people doing this have an ego deficiency or self esteem issue if some sort. Theres lots of single moms, older women, uglier guys and girls who intentionally delay their text responses because they think it gets the other person to chase and like them more. Theyre also subtly telling the other person they’re stupid.

I have seen absolutely ugly guys and girls and single moms do the intentional ignore game over someone theyre obsessed with and deem outside their league. Such people have no morals, no future in the afterlife, and are better off left alone and not allowed to procreate and spread their horrible mental disease. The best approach you can take is do anything you can to completely destroy them mentally. The more their mentality is destroyed, the more heroic you are for preserving the human race and helping maintain its integrity.

[–]MusicgoonV2 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Just ask for a second date. If you say something insecure like your comment on being too late. That will ensure that you will get shot down. Work on your confidence and decisiveness.

[–]Frequent-Device4942 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ask for a second date from someone who ignored you on purpose? You’re basically taking a hit to the moral integrity in order to possibly get some pussy? Wouldn’t it be better to pay and get an escort or stripper? An escort sounds like a much better deal than asking for a date from someone who just told you you’re worthless, stupid, etc

[–]RelucBeam 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

She's a whore. Everything about your post, and especially her reply, screams whore.

Wrap up and kill any attachment feelings before they begin. Soon, you will start idolising her because you want that whore all to yourself

Be careful.

Oh and immediately stop arranging dates like they are work meetings. Don't give so much boring, predictable comfort. You are a desperate man. That's your first issue

[–]No_Zone_911 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You already fucked her so now this gets easy.

  1. Never reach out first.
  2. When she reaches out say "hey it's great to hear from you. I'd love to see you. When are you free this week." (Corey Wayne).
  3. Set up an ironclad date with a time and place. Make sure the date is just the two of you, at night, and starts somewhere where you can get a drink.
  4. once date is scheduled Say "great I'll see you then".
  5. Drop off. Stop texting and simping for validation.

Some possibilities: 1. She never reaches out. This means u never had a chance anyway. Accept it. Find a new one. 2. She won't schedule a date. Say "that's cool, maybe we'll catch up some other time". Ghost. Next time she reaches out try again ONE MORE TIME. if she refuses on time two, u never had a chance. Accept it. Find a new one. 3. She won't schedule a date but she tries to text you and chat with you. You are her male girlfriend orbiter. You never had a chance. Accept it. Find a new one. 4. after a date is scheduled she wants to keep chatting and texting. Pick a random time each day to respond to her texts as a chunk. Be relaxed and confident and funny. After a few texts back and forth drop off and say "gotta run, looking forward to seeing you soon". Ghost. Don't repeat until the next day.

Enjoy watching the power dynamic change and her going from playing you to you playing her.

Following the rules is tough if you don't have frame. If you find yourself breaking rules... Don't make excuses for yourself. Remind yourself that your frame sucks and stick to the rules.

Find at least one different girl to practice on so when this one ghosts you , you don't freak out (book of pook)

Peace be with you my thirsty brother

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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