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She starts to talk to you daily about her struggles, you feel like a therapist

December 6, 2021

7/10 Latina would sometimes chew my ear out. We've been always vague about what this thing we're doing is, she's a plate but I also don't want to be a hearing aid.

When women start talking to you like this, how can you tone it down? If she's literally got no friends or you don't want another ear besides yours because it could influence her the other way, what do you do?

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Title She starts to talk to you daily about her struggles, you feel like a therapist
Author budcraw0
Upvotes 2
Comments 2
Date December 6, 2021 6:14 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
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[–]SharkFrank 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's simple. Just listen.

Don't get caught up trying to be the Tony Robbins of her life. Tell her "I understand what you're going through", "It'll all be ok","I'm here for you"blah blah blah.

Her problems are not yours to solve. Focus more on being the fun guy she enjoys being around.

[–]Meloxian 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Assertive fog. “That sure sounds awful”, “that’s probably pretty bad”, etc.

Indicate disinterest body language wise, reframe the topic to something better (because that’s not a state of mind that’s good to stay in for TOO long.

To be clear it’s okay to listen, for at least a little while it’s a good idea actually, because it helps you connect with them. And that’s the whole point of social interactions, and the whole point of being a social species like we are. Doesn’t mean you have to.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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