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Should I tell her I am a virgin?

September 8, 2022

I am about to sleep with a girl I barely know. The thing is I am 31 and I have never had sex. She is 21. Should I lie to her and tell her I have had sex (and if so, what should I say?) or should I tell her I am a virgin? She will definitely see I am inexperienced, so I am not really sure what to do here. I appreciate all the help from you guys.

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Title Should I tell her I am a virgin?
Author trp_wip
Upvotes 12
Comments 17
Date September 8, 2022 11:57 AM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/should-i-tell-her-i-am-a-virgin.1129622
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/x8ykwh/should_i_tell_her_i_am_a_virgin/

[–]cedal_lito 23 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Don't tell her. Even if it comes up. If it does you lie. All the times I told a girl I was virgin things went south. Women simply don't respect or undertand this problem.

[–]trp_wip[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

OK, thank you. Since you have more experience with girls, what kind of lie would you come up with?

[–]cedal_lito 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't, actually, but I'd lie in the sense that's been a long time, if it comes up. Blame covid.

[–]319Skew 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Only if you want to keep that virgin card. At 31,she'll wonder what is wrong with you.

[–]throwawayintotheseaa 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Banned on my main, had to log into my alt.

Bro don’t tell her. Same age and similar lack of experience. Do not tell her. If in doubt always err on side of confidence. If shit doesn’t work out, literally not an issue at all. Shit doesn’t work out all the time.

If it doesn’t work out, would suggest seeing an escort and moving things forward if you don’t see any other opportunities on the horizon. That’s what I did and it helped me move on with the correct mindset much quicker.

[–]DogeMeat20 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

just curios why did you get banned?

[–]throwawayintotheseaa 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Banned from Reddit overall. Not the sub. Decided to just become a Reddit spectator as a result.

[–]TeslaPills 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don’t tell her, just got for it. Fucking is easy af… literally just stick your dick in her and bam! You’re good…. @ 31 she will think why tf am I having sex with this loser

[–]Splitdiscs 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Don't do it. When I was a virgin me and my other virgin mate went to this girls house and i had told everyone that I wasn't a virgin and he was open about it

Long story short I fucked her and he cried.

[–]1tayg3r 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]PaleoPimp 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely not.

[–]No_Zone_911 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Go on seeking and get an escort. Lose your v card and realize it's not that big of a deal. Your life will probably get a lot better.

[–]edjohn88 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Odds are she will never ask. My first time she did not believe I was a virgin (of course I had to be bluepill and I thought being noble and honest would pay off long term). RP perspective just means while you are better off minimizing deception and being honest by default, you are also better off not volunteering details about yourself that reveal your weaknesses. Girls will read lots of good things into mystery if you can maintain some, and if for some reason specific questions come up, have your agree and amplify and amused mastery in place as habit so you aren't fumbling with answers.

[–]DogeMeat20 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

nope, always act like you know what are you doing

[–]Neeaccount123 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]KerbySTD 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope. My first girl never knew she had a great time. She assumed I'm fucking a lot of girls. Which is my main contributing factor. If she asks you how many girls you've been with say - you mean today? Read the Iron Tomassi rule about that. Never reveal the number of sexual partners you've been with to wamon - that one.

[–]blowmyassie 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, there is literally nothing you don’t know that you would if you weren’t one

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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