I know this post might seem stupid/beta but I wanna make sure I’m not overthinking this. Had a nice date with this girl. Met up for yoga then grabbed a couple drinks (2 each). We actually had a pretty nice time and the vibe was good. At the end we get the bill and as I just start to move towards my wallet, she asks “wanna split it?”. I was a little buzzed and in the moment we were having a good convo so without even thinking I just said “sure” like I was getting drinks with a friend or something. Date ended after but that’s typical for first dates. Money has been a little tight for me right now and I think it subliminally came through in that moment when I agreed without even thinking about it. Is it a big deal I didn’t pay for it? Worried now that I kinda fucked up. Ugh
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No you didn't fuck up. You lucky she asked you. Now if you would have said let's just split it then it may have been bad. But she already asked you beforehand. You were Nonchalant about it which is good. Imagine if you were like "oh no lemme pay I got it don't worry". That's doing too much. Trying to hard. Don't worry bro you did good
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You did fine man, as the other person said you’d have fucked up if you asked to split the bill
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