So I used to know a short “chad” in high school who used to pick on me(tall skinny guy). I found resources like TRP in college and built my body up.

I recently ran into this guy in my hometown at a bar. We’re both 20.

Now mentally when I speak to him I can hold “frame” 2 ways both of which have pros and cons.

1.) “Yeah man I’ve evolved. You used to be better than me and caught me at my lowest points”

2.) “I’ve always been better than you man. I just hadn’t become the best version of myself. Why don’t you go mind your own business”

I’m curious to see which “frame” you would pick. The main advantage choice 2 has is that it feeds your ego lol(in other words that I was indeed better than him all along).

Choice 1 is the “higher road” I feel. It’s a hit to your ego though.

I really like choice 2 though. I’ve transformed myself enough that even if I said “I was always better than you” he would have no choice but to accept it. After all, I’m huge now and that can’t be taken away.

Thoughts? Please give genuine answers, not just “you’re overthinking who cares” lol