Weird situation. Met a girl in the park and hit it off. Agreed to go Skydiving with me. After we booked it, she said she has a BF

319Skew · 2022-06-29T04:12:23+00:00

If you've made the interaction one of a man wanting to fuck a woman then it's a shit test to weed out the timid guys who are to shy to take advantage of her sexuality.

If you've spent two hours getting to know her star sign, talking about your dreams then you've basically handed her your application to orbit her as her beta simp or new gay friend. Her telling you about her bf is just a reminder to not get the wrong idea.

HoChiMinhDingDong · 2022-06-28T22:55:14+00:00

Go skydiving since you already paid, don't pay for any of her shit, don't fuck her if you're honorable, fuck her if you don't care about her boyfriend after you skydive, don't speak to her again afterwards.

Fun_Noise4256 · 2022-06-28T21:38:42+00:00

knowingly_diligent · 2022-06-28T22:54:49+00:00

She either doesn’t like you or perceives your value to be less than that of her boyfriend. Cancelling that close to a date is the oldest trick the book and is always a projection of her attraction towards you. Those that care less about the relationship have the most power.

That-Potential-5684 · 2022-06-29T13:29:21+00:00

You made a girl in the park interested in you. However there were some mixed signals from you as you talked 2h and not really escalated. The girl decided to go skydiving with you as it sounded fun ( and let's find out if he's beta or Alfa).

Then this past Saturday I asked her what she was up to because I wanted to get drinks or something

I think this is where you gave out a beta vibe (too available/needy) and triggered I have a bf shit test. After you booked the tickets your job was to shut up, as you text for logistics only with girls you haven't already slept.

I don't really know how I should act now

If it's just a bf then it's fair game. Assume attraction. Have tons of fun at the event. Escalate. Tease. Try to talk less. See how it works and go from there. If she seems disinterested then soft next, if the opposite she's a plate material.