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Weird situation. Met a girl in the park and hit it off. Agreed to go Skydiving with me. After we booked it, she said she has a BF

idogotabearddoe
June 28, 2022
3 upvotes
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Really any kind of insight or advice would be appreciated here because idk what to think. Went to the park to chill about a week ago and started talking to this cute girl. We clicked decently and probably talked for like 2 hours out there before I said I should head home. Nothing really physical, we were just talking, maybe some light touching from me. Yeah maybe that was too long to chat and not try to escalate, but it was nice and we were just out in a park lol.

Anyways, it came up that I wanted to go skydiving for the first time and she said she'd be down to go with me and was totally serious. So over the next few days we figured out a date to go and we both booked non-refundable tickets.

Then this past Saturday I asked her what she was up to because I wanted to get drinks or something before we fucking skydive lol, and she said she was at her boyfriend's out of town. Hadn't mentioned she wasn't single at all until this point. I'm like, bruh. I think it's disrespectful for her to not mention a bf that late into us talking.

We are set to go skydiving in literally two (2) days. I don't really know how I should act now lol. I am happy to go skydiving, but I feel like I was conned a little and if I could cancel I would, but the shit is booked.

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Title Weird situation. Met a girl in the park and hit it off. Agreed to go Skydiving with me. After we booked it, she said she has a BF
Author idogotabearddoe
Upvotes 3
Comments 8
Date June 28, 2022 9:34 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
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[–]319Skew 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you've made the interaction one of a man wanting to fuck a woman then it's a shit test to weed out the timid guys who are to shy to take advantage of her sexuality.

If you've spent two hours getting to know her star sign, talking about your dreams then you've basically handed her your application to orbit her as her beta simp or new gay friend. Her telling you about her bf is just a reminder to not get the wrong idea.

[–]HoChiMinhDingDong 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Go skydiving since you already paid, don't pay for any of her shit, don't fuck her if you're honorable, fuck her if you don't care about her boyfriend after you skydive, don't speak to her again afterwards.

[–]idogotabearddoe[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

you think i even have a chance to tho?

[–]HoChiMinhDingDong 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, women don't do seek men out or agree on dates unless they're at least a little sexually or romantically attracted, just the way it is with 99% of women who aren't family.

[–]Fun_Noise4256 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Next

[–]knowingly_diligent 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She either doesn’t like you or perceives your value to be less than that of her boyfriend. Cancelling that close to a date is the oldest trick the book and is always a projection of her attraction towards you. Those that care less about the relationship have the most power.

[–]That-Potential-5684 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You made a girl in the park interested in you. However there were some mixed signals from you as you talked 2h and not really escalated. The girl decided to go skydiving with you as it sounded fun ( and let's find out if he's beta or Alfa).

Then this past Saturday I asked her what she was up to because I wanted to get drinks or something

I think this is where you gave out a beta vibe (too available/needy) and triggered I have a bf shit test. After you booked the tickets your job was to shut up, as you text for logistics only with girls you haven't already slept.

I don't really know how I should act now

If it's just a bf then it's fair game. Assume attraction. Have tons of fun at the event. Escalate. Tease. Try to talk less. See how it works and go from there. If she seems disinterested then soft next, if the opposite she's a plate material.

[–]idogotabearddoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

good feedback. i appreciate it

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