Third date, I felt tired but I was more naive too. And I had other thoughts going in my head such as another plate wanting me to commit. Threw me off.

I had everything, the touch was there, we were next to each other. But I had this marvelous idea of not wanting to escallate or kiss because it's a dirty street lot.

It's not that the date didn't go well. She had a good time, she even bought some gifts for her cousin. Says she'll message me afterward. Some women, I get, are not big texters and she's one of these.

But nothing just gets me so down when I always had to initiate ethusiasm. When I assert, she and most I meet would reciprocate as is standard. It's rare for a woman to lead without thinking it's not normal. And the ones that do are well beyond my scope, they're generally not attractive at least to my taste.

What helped you move on from missed chances where the signals and signs where there?

I felt like I was too nice that time. Certainly was. We both knew we had work the next early morning, I had the sway to dictate but chose to be a nice guy and tell her to go home early to get some sleep lol