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What should I do with this plate that wants to be exclusive?

August 4, 2021

Hi people,

I think one of the girls I am talking with will try to be exclusive with me in a few weeks(She gave me hints but we didn't had the talk yet). The thing is she is pretty close with other dudes(multiple male friends, going out with the other dudes). And I am not okay with that If I am going to be exclusive. Sometimes she asks me who did I meet with and I always tease her. Last night she posted a snap with a few dudes while swimming just after I called her for logistics(She didn't post anything for the last few days). When we meet she always tries to make me jealous (Just so you know, I passed all of these tests.)

IDGAF because she is just a plate now. But what should I do if she wants to be exclusive with me? Should I just dump her? I am sure she doesn't fuck other guys but still, she is close with them. I am kinda okay with being exclusive because she is good in bed and I love hanging out with her. But I am not okay with that if she doesn't stop hanging out with other guys and continue to try making me jealous like a fucking 5 year old.

How should I set boundaries If I am going to be exclusive with her? Actions speaks louder than words, so I know I am not going to say something like "Hey don't hang with these dudes, it makes me sad"

If I keep her as a plate she is going to notice that I don't think she is going to like that(lol).

I have read a lot of things from the old subreddit(and the sidebar) but I wanted to hear you guys opinions, cheers.

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Title What should I do with this plate that wants to be exclusive?
Author ornitooo
Upvotes 3
Comments 5
Date August 4, 2021 10:45 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/what-should-i-do-with-this-plate-that-wants-to-be.1095085
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/oxq1bq/what_should_i_do_with_this_plate_that_wants_to_be/
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[–]DWS33_ 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Well you’ve been vetting this woman and determined she’s not relationship material. therefore, she can only stay as a plate.

[–]ornitooo[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah I am going to keep her as a plate but I assume the moment she understands she is just a plate she will dump me.

Should I just let go and dump her before she dumps me?

[–]DWS33_ 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

the day she trips you cut her off. enjoy your turn.

[–]ajajaj99 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Advise solid already. You know what to do. It’s your turn.

[–]i-am-the-prize 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

any women who actively Dreads her man, regardless of "relationship status**" isn't promotable.

status bar:

noone >> ONS >> Plate >> FB >> LTR >> ??

she's a plate, and is trying to dread you and make you jelly. deal breaker. if she asked for commitment, hinted, and even tried coercing via feels (tears) that's all normal. but as soon as she parades sausages in her socials knowing you'll see, just laugh and know she belongs to the streets.

the only reason to break it off early is if you've caught feels, only you know that.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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