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What should you do if she loses interest?

July 18, 2021

I've read something here that motivated me to write this post. Also, I think that many dudes have this issue in the back of their minds. Especially inexperienced ones. Although I don't recommend going to clubs with your date, some of you dogs will do it anyway.

I'll present an example by using a casual date. Honestly, the same concept would still hold for long term relationships. You're out with her having a great time. You're in a good mood and confident. She's crazy about you. When you talk she touches her hair and gets nervous easily. All good. But when you guys enter the club, every dude there eats her up with his eyes. Suddenly, a buff and tall dude asks her if she wants to dance.

What should you do?

There are three options here:

1. You overreact and ask him if he's got a problem or even shove him.

2. You ignore it.

3. You make a joke like "dude can I dance with you instead?"

Option 1 is absolutely unnecessary unless the guy is legitimately and physically threatening you or her. If he's not touching either of you against your will, there's absolutely no need to become aggressive.

Option 2 is the standard route. Act like you didn't hear him and he doesn't even exist to you. You tell her "I feel like having a glass of orange juice" and leave the scene. If she stays with the dude you forget about her forever and find another woman. She wasn't a good one to begin with in that case. If she follows you, you'll know that she'll be submissive and compliant from there on. You've shown her that you're confident enough to let her go about her own business. She now realizes that you don't give a fuck. This is the best possible scenario.

Option 3 is rather weak. You could do it but if you look too goofy and nervous you're done. He won't respect you and she'll perceive you as the damn clown you are.

The core of this message is intended to show you that you should, under no circumstances, care if a woman decides to drop your ass. Many dudes have this notion that they can convince her to change her mind and take them back. This is impossible. You can't negotiate desire and attraction. Don't "fight" for her if she disrespects you like that.

Always have enough options at hand so that these typa scenarios won't even bother you. Newsflash: She's not special. You'll find many more like her. You could blindly throw a stone and hit a better bitch. You guys have to work on yourselves and work out constantly. It'll reflect itself as successful encounters with women. This will lead to you not giving a damn fuck about this one woman that lost interest.

Be a tiger. Up your numbers so your failed attempts even out. Go out and talk to women. Even if you're in a relationship, talk to other women and embrace your masculine energy. Don't be ashamed of anything and walk and talk with fucking intensity.

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Title What should you do if she loses interest?
Author CoyoteMiyamoto
Upvotes 5
Comments 9
Date July 18, 2021 8:36 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/what-should-you-do-if-she-loses-interest.1095060
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/omyt6k/what_should_you_do_if_she_loses_interest/
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[–]Meloxian 1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Mirror her interest level. If she pushes then you push.

  1. Mate guarding is a no.

  2. Shows lack of social status.

Literally just walk away and go start talking to other chicks. Let her tell him to fuck off. Or don’t. Honestly dgaf

[–]CoyoteMiyamoto 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

You've clearly skipped reading the post. Read beyond the first bullet on the list and you'll see.

[–]Meloxian 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

I read the post, I didn’t answer it. I left a better response than the post warranted.

The post is basic as fuck, and it’s trying to pretend like it’s something more than the Trp equivalent of fortune cookie wisdom.

Everything on here is covered on the asktrp/trp sidebar in greater depth and detail. The scenarios are simple, the responses are simple. The damn internal monologue critiquing the responses are simple.

You’re just parroting common Redpill sayings like it’s an original thought - this is the kinda thing you’d expect to see in a comment section of trp, not as a dedicated post. Develop your own unique RP school of thought, dude - it feels like someone who’s trying to be a “redpill visionary” rather than someone who actually is.

I get there’s new people, honestly I don’t mean to shit all over your points - they’re fine, nothing technically wrong with them. But this feels like the most bland thing I’ve ever seen in my life. It feels like when that slow kid in class points out something that everybody else figured out ten minutes ago. It feels like when Micheal Scott went into “date mike” mode, to try and be something he wasn’t. It feels fake.

[–]CoyoteMiyamoto 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

You write like a jealous ex girlfriend who's angry about being ignored and that nobody wants to listen to her. This dude is really using terms like "mate guarding" in a club scenario and calls other people "redpill visionaries" with a passive aggressive undertone. This post is meant for men who want precise fundamentals, not for fortnite playing bitches.

What do you mean with "unique red pill school of thought"? The human psychology doesn't change all of a sudden within thousands, let alone 20-30 years. The strategies are similar because they revolve around the same principles and emotional reactions. If you want some new shit, go visit FDS. You'll like it over there.

I've never encountered such a long yet meaningless reply. Work on yourself. Your whole comment is aimed at finding nonexistent loopholes to make you look like you're analytical and methodical - you're not. You've got lots of work to do. With that attitude no one will want to connect with you. Not women, and surely not other men as a group.

Hit me or other dudes here up if you need tips.

[–]Meloxian 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I’m sorry to trigger you dude. I’m sure you know more about all that stuff then me, you have a mirror after all, right boss?

“Unique R̶e̶d̶p̶i̶l̶l̶ ̶s̶c̶h̶o̶o̶l̶ ̶o̶f̶ thought.”

I mean the thing that you don’t have.

I’m sure you know all about men’s… tips… hard not too with all of that personal experience, right? If I ever need help finding some, I’ll be sure to ask - I’m sure you have a detailed report on the balls and shafts too.

Could maybe start up some kinda business there, you can test out the tips and sell the information to some ladies. Good way to make money, I’m sure you could use it. Just trying to help you out.

Thanks champ!

[–]CoyoteMiyamoto 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Wow, super creative, buddy. Gotta remember those lines so I can be ready for future confrontations with men who have extremely low testosterone.

Let's talk sometime soon when you're off your period.

No worries, my son.

[–]Meloxian 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Well they sure worked pretty well in my confrontation with you, so they’re definitely gonna work against OTHER men with low testosterone too. I’m sure you confront a lot of men with low testosterone. Glad I could help!

No problem man, you can hold my tampon; I’m sure you’re good at that; plus you won’t even have to see the blood, I know you can’t handle that. Just trying to be considerate.

Are you trying to get me to call you daddy or something? I would but you’d probably come on the spot. And we both know how your grandma feels about cum on her carpets. Remember Halloween and the Freddy Kruger mask?

[–]CoyoteMiyamoto 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Okay you completely lost me there. Don't know what you've been smoking. Smells like your mommas pubes though. But then again, how is she available at this hour? I got her schedule on my cloud and she should be busy rn.

Yes, I am your father. Live with it. It'll be easier. It's okay if you call me sir or dad. No need to mix this up with one of your sugar daddies.

[–]Give_Praise_Unto_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I prefer option 4: Dare her to go dance with another guy. Even offer to buy him a drink. His blue balls can be your entertainment .

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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