I've been dating this 35+ mom of 1 (teenager) and she seems to get the drift that I date around. But I think I might be getting suckered in, though it's nice to be spoiled (however weird this sounds) I know this love bombing is some sort of gaslight for a later scenario. Am I setting myself up here? Or am I wishful thinking about not having any strings attached in this scenario, no matter how much help or openness she gives?