[M/16] Not sure when to talk to girl I like

HappyJerk · 2014-01-14T23:21:42+00:00

So after this excursion I really wanted to start talking to her more often so I could get to know her better and maybe ask her out.

No, just ask her out.

During brakes she's always with all kinds of people I don't know so I don't really dare to approach her then.

Just interrupt whatever she is doing and be like "hey I have a question for you. Will you go out with me." That's it and that's all.

freshairr · 2014-01-14T23:29:23+00:00

I don't think there will ever be a "perfect opportunity" where everything aligns in the way you imagine it, creating the moment for you to make your move.

The perfect moment is the moment you take action. It seems a bit like you're making excuses for yourself (such as that you have to walk with your friends).

Next time you see her, pull her to the side and ask her out.

puaCurveBall · 2014-01-14T23:49:25+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

I believe the term "Friendzone" applies to your question, I URGE you to read this post.

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)

Title	[M/16] Not sure when to talk to girl I like
Author	TheDudeinator
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	January 14, 2014 11:19 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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