Hi all! I've known about this subreddit for a while but now that I'm talking to more girls I finally have to use it. So far I've had good luck and bad luck, and I'm enjoying my experience so far. But today was a miracle.

So I met this totally bangable chick in physics today, and we had a good convo. I initiated kino during the class (a huge 160-person lecture hall) by putting my arm around her when she helped me out with a problem that I really did need help on. She was also incidentally brushing arms with me.

At the end of the class I initiated some roleplay. I told her I was building this rocket ship and she would construct the fuel (shes a chem major). She told me she was against it but I told her solar powered would be a good alternative. I told her I'd love to visit sirius and shes like "what? Oh, the planet." Not verbally, but I could read it nonverbally. Then I asked her "I have to go to my lab now, but is there anyway we could keep in touch?" (Baiting for the number) And she was like "oh I'll see you tuesday." (Next time we have lecture class)

Little old me would have been like "ok see you then." Leading to nothing but absolute blue balls. Instead I used this article http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip147.htm THE SILENT PAUSE to my advantage. And I kept silent to which she was like "mmhmm yeah... (awkward pause for 4 seconds) what recitation do you have?"

I found out we have recitation together as well (a small 20-person class where we go over what we learned in lecture). Then we proceeded to talk for 3 more minutes walking away from where I said we would depart and kept having good vibes (this NEVER happens. What a fucking godsend) and I kept busting her balls. She asked me what I studied and I said "math. See when people fight me, and they have a tendency to, (she replied "oh what? Wtf") I just say X PLUS Y! (Point finger in random direction) and they fall to their knees and die of boredom. (Usually this gets them laughing, and it didnt fail here.) She told me her brother worked in the stock market and I told her its a bad idea because I'd leave her family broke and he should be my assistant. She kept trying to break my frame saying I should be his assistant but I was like "thats not a good idea, he'd have to do my paperwork. And you cant do it because youll be busy building my solar panels"

She asked me where my lab was and I pointed the other way, to which she was like "oh your physics lab!! Well I'll see you in recitation". I used the silent pause AGAIN and she told me she sits in the second row. (This silent pause stuff is golden!!) And I told her okay. Well uh, get to work, playfully slapping her on the arm. She was like "I'll get to work building those panels" as she turns away, although with a serious face. (I also had a serious face - maybe that has something to do with it? What do you think?) And I was like "alright bye" giggling.

What do I do now redditors? By the way, this is a great article that makes me feel so much more confident in the sense that I dont feel like I need to ask for the number right away. http://www.sosuave.com/articles/at/patience.htm it basically says that women need to wonder about you after the first interaction in that they need to think about why you came on so strongly instead of like a friend. So perhaps, the second time she will be much more receptive (even more than today, which she was very receptive).

Another question: should I sit next to her or continue sitting with my group? We all sit in groups of 2-3. I'm leaning towards sticking with my group and talking to her before/after class unless a good reason is presented.