Hello everyone first off some of you probably seen my posts on /r/asktrp. Let me start off by saying that I am a first generation Asian American in my late 20s. I am a graduate student in the STEM fields, and needless to say I have very low SMV as every other short chubby Asian Computer nerd. On top of that I also have beta personality as I have a dysfunctional childhood, raised by a tiger step mom who is a feminist.

If you have seen my previous posts I favor expatriation for guys like myself, as common sense tells us that if we are not valued in American society, then go somewhere where I will be valued. I have tried online dating like OKC and Tinder but the results are minimal.

However, I am also self improving, as I have lost a lot of weight when I took up muay thai/ kickoxing, kung fu, running and swimming

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Who favors expatriation? Did I make the right decision? any advice for me on improving looks or game?