Hey all. really excited to be getting into seduction, PUA, and the red pill in general. Here's a little background to this conversation.
Went to bar last night, saw someone i met at a party 3 years ago working behind the bar. She was kinda chubby back then, still is, but lost alot of it and died her hair blonde. Looks ok now.
I was a bit drunk, and thought "Fuck it, worth saying something at least". I didn't give a fuck how she responded, honestly.
So i say "Alright (girls name)!"
She smiled and said hi, seemed genuinely pleased to see me.
I said "Damn, you got fit."
She blushes, doesn't really know what to say and just keeps smiling at me. Says something i can't remember.
I then tell her I'm off to meet up with my mates.
Wake up in the morning, she's added me on Facebook and then she sends me a message.
Now i'm not going to come here every time i have a text conversation with a girl, and i know this post is long, but i could really do with some feedback, just to set me on the right track, tell me where i went wrong and where i went right. Be brutally honest, this is how it happened to the best of my memory.
here's the conversation over fb
Her: So how drunk did you get lastnight, you didn't stay in the pub long x
Me: i made out with a lamp post so pretty drunk.
Her: I don't really know how to reply to that! You didn't seem that drunk when I sore you! X
Me: im lying, i have better standards than that
Her: Oh right, I clearly dont know how to take your sense of humor! X
Me: what are you doing next Monday
Her: I haven't made plans yet, it's my only day off so probably chilling, yourself? X
Me: i'm free, come for a drink
Her: Where you thinking?x
Me: (Name of pub where she works) haha
Her: Not a chance! I love that pub it's my favourite, but I'd rather not have staff and customers watching me!x
Me: good point, I don't want to be seen with you either Let's go to (new pub) instead
Her:I hope that was another one of your poor humored jokes! I can deal with (new pub)!x
Me: well you're lapping it up either way
Her:Lapping it up?x
Her: Not completely understanding what it is I'm "lapping up" x
Me: its OK
Her: (thumbs up icon)
Me: so Monday, 4pm, (name of pub)
Her: Depends x
Me: Well I'm doing shit anyway so I'll just wait for five minutes and if you're not there, it's cool.
Her: Are you being serious!x
Me: Serious about what
her: Are you being serious, you want me to meet you at the (name of pub) x
Me: Yes I am being serious, do you never get asked out or something?
Her: Stop being a dick!x
Me: You coming or not
Her:I'll let you know x