So, this girl lives an hour away. No problem, I am keeping a level of discreet but we have this restaurant here where you eat in pitch black and it's very touchy. You need to hold hands to get around or when you are guided to your table etc.... problem is, it wouldn't be nice for me to ask her to bus out this way just so I can drive her home, it seems too clear that I want to drive her back to her place. So, any suggestions? Plus if the date is a dud , then an hour long drive would be a little painful to deal with . I should research places close to her most likely? I don't want her to drive herself either because this could equal her saying "I'll just drive myself"