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How do I Flirt like an alpha?

July 21, 2014

I suck at flirting, I just dont know what to say, every conversation that I try to make flirty with a girl ends up with me asking her a lot of questions and ends up feeling like a job interview. Can you guys teach me how to flirt with them and how to attract them so I can stop being so beta. Thanks in advance.

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Title How do I Flirt like an alpha?
Author newreditter
Upvotes 15
Comments 12
Date July 21, 2014 3:07 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit /r/trpGAME
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[–]RedSunBlue 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Rephrase all your questions as statements.

Boring Question Assertive Statement
"How old are you?" "You look 25."
"Where do you live?" "I bet you're a [region] girl."
"Do you like dogs?" "You're such a dog person, I know it."

Making assertive and assumptive statements is great because it's a win-win situation. If you're right, she's says, "OMG, HOW DID YOU KNOW THAT???" If you're wrong, she'll correct you and the conversation continues.

[–]thetenman 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a very complicated question. In general when I flirt I am not looking for response to questions from the girl, but reactions. Good or bad reactions it does not matter, just say things that get her emoting. Responses to questions are boring and do not build attraction, they are cold and impersonal. Like you said a job interview. Assertive language is a good middle ground, for this as RedSunBlue pointed out. They give the girl a topic to answer but still can cause her to react to what you say. Also, you need to be relaxed, I find that if I am relaxed then flirty interactions happen more naturally.

[–]soulracer 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

One simple thing I sometimes find myself telling friends who ask, is treating the girl like a guy friend who you're joking with. Implications of why and how are all over this sub. -2 cents

[–]teeelo 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I personally like to lightly tease and egg her on to challenge me back.

It's not something easily picked up but practice makes perfect and don't be afraid to utilize and modify other conversation topics that you've heard before that you liked.

One of my favorite 'go to characters' is being an absurd parody of the typical douche bag. Every once in a while casually throwing in or suggesting something so outrageous and following it up with cheeky grin in an attempt to get those flirtatious juices flowing.

[–]blazingcopper 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I know this is such an asberger like question, but what are some examples of cheeky statements? Just to get an idea ofc.

[–]teeelo 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

'Negging' is the other way of putting it.

"Normally your hair looks really nice, were you in a rush this morning?"

Observe her response your initial goal should be to antagonize her when you see her becoming upset then you put on that cheeky smile as if you know you're getting to her.

If your rapport has advanced enough you can ask her rude questions with the assumption that she is a whore. This gets her mind on to sex and challenges her to respond in kind with the fear that you will lose interest in her if she does not.

"Was your last threesome with two girls or two guys?"

Keep in mind you have no idea if she has had a threesome you are just assuming she has

[–]blazingcopper 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know this is such an asberger like question, but what are some examples of cheeky statements? Just to get an idea ofc.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not much we can tell you here. Practice makes perfect.

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[–]Mans_Right_To_Choose 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Isn't /r/trpgame specifically supposed to be like /r/seduction but more Red Pill?

Isn't this post exactly what this sub was set up for?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep. There is no place on Reddit more correct to ask this question lol.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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