how to keep plates coming back?

mojo_magnifico · 2014-07-16T07:20:33+00:00

They're not fading away, they're "moving on and looking for new ones," just like you!

You're likely being too overt with your idgaf abundance frame. Be very subtle when externalizing this frame.

How to keep plates coming back for years

Be more subtle with your pimp abilities. Feign a blue pill mentality. This does not mean fail shit tests...it means be somewhat romantic and empathic... Think about her emotions...do you make her feel special or important at all? If not, what is her incentive to continue seeing you? Most girls love occasional sex with a hot, high value man, but they aren't necessarily looking to be fucked long term by a proud player who blatantly isn't going to commit. It's devalidating to them, think about it (She's only side bitch status, friends would shame her if they knew, you're merely a taboo pleasure). If she's hot (I hope you're not settling!), there are plenty of other guys who are willing to give her great sex AND some basic companionship and loyalty. And sooner or later she'll find one of them and end it with you. Simply give her some sort of hope that there is a future, but enforce the 'we like each other and are partaking in casual fun for right now' frame. My advice, if you want one for the long term, see her no more than 2-3 times a week, go out to lunch, go for drinks, go to the park, the beach, watch the sunset, walk, talk, joke, keep it light hearted, but make memories, inside jokes and the like. This is what life is all about, after all. Two young good looking people being happy together in the moment. Make sure you fuck every time (or close to it) you hang out. Drop her if she's not giving it up. Never let it get to a point where you're meeting her parents or some shit. Never have the "relationship talk". Force HER to have to be the one to bring up a relationship/exclusivity conversation. And if she does, deflect with a joke. Or you can just pretend you're seeing her exclusively and be smooth. If she drops you anyway, be graceful about it. You've now built a foundation and she will always come to you after every break up or fight with new boyfriends. If she's not hitting you back for a few months and you're thirsty for it, you can try and hit her with a nostalgic emotional spike. Text her an inside joke, or the classic "Remembering...our first kiss"

Good luck

CyberFi · 2014-07-15T20:49:01+00:00

Sex got method. Read it.

thepillwastaken · 2014-07-16T02:21:47+00:00

How good are you in bed? Serious question. The thing about plates is if you don't fuck them very well every time, they will lose interest because the great sex is what keeps them entranced by you.

But yeah, I always upgrade mine. Ill have one for a month or two that I think is my favorite and great, and a few weeks later I meet a better one. So keep upgrading them until you get one that makes you want to stop spinning.

SergeantDickhead · 2014-07-15T20:58:34+00:00

As fucking annoying as it is, Drama.

And dread game.

Dropping Drama here and there (bitches love drama whether they want to admit it or not) keeps little sparks of interest. Keep her knowing she isn't perfect overtly.

As for LTR, I get bored with girls before that becomes an issue.

Pushnikov · 2014-07-16T01:54:08+00:00

Fuck them better. Don't be boring.

2014-07-15T22:47:51+00:00

You don't. You replace them until you find one worthy of an LTR.

Title	how to keep plates coming back?
Author	tjbdef
Upvotes	9
Comments	8
Date	July 15, 2014 8:13 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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