Initial approach

Geocan001 · 2014-06-25T02:30:40+00:00

I love opportunities like this. It gives me an opportunity to reflect on what's worked and what hasn't. I'm by no means completely fit, so I can't blame my success on my godly physique (though I have developed the general shape.)

Most of my success comes from a comment about the person's situation or cracking a joke about the situation. I think C_MonsterT has it answered for you. Don't overthink it, just be secure in yourself and don't care about the outcome. The approach hinges on your inner game, not about what you can do.

greenybeans · 2014-06-25T12:47:31+00:00

Thanks guys, How long should I keep that conversation going before I ask if she would like to go for a beer/coffee sometime? I guess its very situational but there must be some sort of guideline you guys use

e13e7 · 2014-06-25T20:23:33+00:00

Women aren't stupid. They're going to batshit crazy trying to find the reason you introduced yourself out of the blue, especially if they were already busy with something else, and if you aren't smooth about it they'll dismiss you as a 'creep' because let's face it you're obviously cruising for pussy. You can either play it off innocently or go for the truth, and not only what you say but your body language is crucial in making the sale.

Obviously your chances are very slim if you can't start off with a similarity like "omg nice Adventure Time shirt! Did you see the episode^{blah^{blah^blah...}} " so don't get all excited and piss your pants every time you see a hottie.

EDIT: oh you want tips. Uhh, my friend yoyos on street corners and probably talks to about 6 chicks every hour he's out there. Anything to get them to stop and notice you, the rest is bullshittin

Talkshitgethit · 2014-06-26T01:19:53+00:00

Read the sidebar, we've got tons of basic materials to look at.

VegasHostTre · 2014-06-26T10:39:17+00:00

Indirect approaching works best if your not a top of the foodchain alpha. If your in a mall find a store that the mall doesn't have, find a woman you like and say,"excuse me do you know where XX store is?" she will say either " I don't know or they don't have it if she has been there before" Then you can say well im looking for XX have you seen it. Direct the convo to where is she headed and walk with her rambling about stuff. If you can get her to stop in the foodcourt and have an ice cream or something with you thats awesome she is willing to put a halt to her day to hang with you end the interaction with a number and move on

Title	Initial approach
Author	greenybeans
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	June 24, 2014 7:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/trpGAME
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