Just some backstory: I work in a place that employs almost 400 people sporadically scheduled throughout the day. I've been working there for two years but about 8 months ago, I noticed Mary, she's a solid 7. After a few passing smiles we started engaging in normal chit chat, from there I got her number and texting didn't go so well at first. She wasn't good at holding a conversation so I completely stopped taking to her. Strangely enough once I stopped taking to her it seems like she disappeared from work. Until recently. On Sunday she was, for lack of a better word, loitering with her friend watching me work so I went up to her said hello and all that good stuff then went back to doing what I was doing. She continued to stare at me work so I texted her. The conversation escalated quickly and I wasn't sure if she was being serious or not this is the important part.
Her: oh so you want some mary, captain america? (she thinks i look like captain america)
Me: you think you can handle captain america, mary?
Her:oh i do. i just hope he can handle me
Me: we'll see
Her: oh we will?
Me: what're you doing tonight?
Her: going to school cause I'm cool like that
Me: okay so you name a time and a place and like I said we'll see.
Her: alright. let me clarify something.
Me: ok
Her: I'm not a little hoe
Me: hoe is a very broad term
Her: I don't know what you want from me but I don't usually sleep around with random guys. I'll hang out and fool around but I'm not a hoe. Just sayin :)
Her: I wasn't sure if you were joking before
(this is the beginning of her resistance)
Me: if I was joking, would it be funny?
Her: I was laughing anyways..
Her: from my own personal experience I feel like its appropriate to tell you that I'm not a hoe.
Me: What are you implying?
Her: Implying with what? not being a hoe?
Me: enough with the riddles lol you know exactly what I'm asking
Her: I'm actually very confused..
Her: how about YOU stop with the riddles.
Me: I'm not expecting to just fuck you on a whim. I'm not going to treat you like a hoe. But if I do take you out, I'm doing that with the intentions of my actions being reciprocated.. if I thought you were a hoe I wouldn't have tried talking to you in the first place.
Her: well that wasn't a riddle.
Her: and thank you for clarifying that for me.
Her: it would be rude with no reciprocating
Me: ok so we're on the same page?
Her: well I hope so ;)
Thoughts?
EDIT: formatting, taking out the useless text, adding the important texts that i cut out.
TL/DR: The idea was that she was all about sex while we were talking about it but when i made a move to make it happen she had some LMR. thats when she started saying "i dont do this sort of thing" i maintained frame and told her if i take her out i want reciprocation. she thanked me for being clear about my intentions and agreed that it would be rude of her not to reciprocate.
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