Asking for help here.

Met A on tinder. Easy 8, 8.5. Got talking. She is interested. Got to know her. Cannot meet up due to me being out the country. She is insecure because she has a genetic condition which causes bleedings in her brain and she has been getting physio since october because the bleed burst paralysing her entire left side.

We get along really well and I am starting to get attracted to her. I asked her why her boyfriend ended things and it turns out the bleed affects her hormones and she gets angry and moans at people for no reason. She says she cannot help it.

What to do? I don't want to next her right now. It's weird but I have a desire to just hold her in my arms and let her fall asleep. She is so fragile and weak and I feel a fatherly urge to just care for her and make sure she is okay. Am I getting oneitis?

Thanks in advance.