TL:DR So I have a plate and she just texted me "I miss you" after 1 week abroad. What should I respond? Funny,romantic or just totally change frame? Also diffrent question around plates.

Hi guys. My newest plate is my coworker in a small startup we are not collaborating thought, diffrent teams. But still "Don't shit where you eat"...

This started like this. We were hanging out together(first meeting, earlier friends at work, deep rapport) and suddenly I got horny. We started making out. Then we were making out in public with hair puling and some touch under clothes. Sober.

After this we sheduled a meeting for a day after. We planned dance class, then she would show me her recipy at her place. There was a big storm so we just met at her place. Started making out, then sex. This was a saturday and I sleept over at her place. (she asked me to stay. "Don't leave") We had some fun until afternoon, then goodbye.

She suggested that we can meet again before her plane. I declined.(being busy)

The frame that we have is kind of strange. I am 18, thought I look like 16. She is 22. I am leading, while being "friendly and cool", kind of cool teenage kid. There is also strange mix of rough sex and cuddling after, like romantic cuddling with long eye contact. She is submisive and feminine.

Noone knows. Yet.

possibly important fact : She comes from a broken home. She comes from China and went back there for a month. We are in a middle European country. We haven't been talking about being exclusive and shit like that. It looks like it is just assumed by her. She will be hard to replace

Questions : 0. Going full romantic mode? I actually enjoy creating frames like that. + I would do this from a sexworthy place, not from beta 1. How do you break up with someone from your social circle. 2. Should I keep other plates in secret, now when I fucked up relationship framing. Nothing about "I just want to have fun" She will probably be hurted about this. She has diffrent expectations 3. What things should you expect from a woman with daddy issues? 4. Some good resources about relationships? 5. Should I talk to her that our relation should be a secret at work? (small startup so nobody gives a shit) 6. I thought about gaming other woman at work. How retarted is that idea? 7. If I would successfuly game someone at work while she is abroad how this would develop? 8. We look strange together. What issues can come out from this?

  1. What about frames? Are "friendly","rough","cuddling" frames kind of incogruent or interesting? Should I merge them into one frame or keep them because of making it more interesting.

  2. Can I somehow dodge going into LTR with her? My college is starting soon?

  3. How do you break up LTR? What reason is socially acceptable for her. What reason will be acceptable for her? How to do this without destroying my reputation.

  4. I wonder why is she texting me : a) get her validation b) shit test me c) she is thinking about coming back sooner

btw I was that guy who had " don't fail shit tests field report" a month ago. Thanks tpr game. Also got my life together, martial arts + dance + great job + ofc lifting + game + being young! Thanks tpr!