Warning: Long but hopefully informative

The idea is basically to have a sticky thread where everybody can post text messages in order to either lay out their strategy for other guys or to request help if you don't know where you stand or can't think of a witty answer.

Considering that this sub is supposed to be the one for actual usage of game in daily life, I'd find it quite fitting.

Just to give you an example, I'll start. This is from a 21yr old 7/10 who I've met two weeks ago. She's friends with a friend of mine and I've seen her at his birthday for the second time. We've been flirting a bit on that evening, and she seemed to be very into it, but I didn't even kiss her back then, because I was still together with my LTR.

A week later she asks our common friend if he'll ask me if it's okay for him to give her my number. I agreed.

  • Her: Hey :) it's me, Jessica. I got your number from John. I know where you live but I can't just come over... ;) How was your weekend? best wishes, Jessica

The most important thing up until now you have to keep in mind, is that I obviously have her totally hooked. You know how difficult it is for most guys to ask a girl for their phone number? It's a lot fucking harder for a girl, because they can't deal with rejection. So the fact that she asks him for my number (even though I didn't even kiss her before and wasn't overly sexual either), means that she's definitely dtf.

  • Me: Hi. It was great. Very brave of you to take the initiative, I like that. Are you free on saturday?

Not bothering to give her an explicit answer, because I don't want to chat with her, but fuck her instead. Always try to just use texting to get her on a date instead of mindless small talk. Calling her brave for making the first step was just a fun little thing to do, because it rewards her behavior, and also makes it clear to her that I know why she's texting me.

  • Her: So far, yes ;)

  • Her: What are you planning on doing then?

  • Me: Depends on the weather

  • Her: So you'd like to see me on saturday?

  • Me: Ah, I see I should have made myself clearer. What I meant was, that we're gonna do something on saturday. I'd like to see you today, but saturday fits me better.

  • Her: Who is we?

  • Me: Haha, oh boy. You and me, the two of us, nobody else.

  • Her: I'm at home now and cooled down a bit :P and I've understood it now :)

Well, that was a bit weird. Looks like she though I was going to do something with friends and just wanted her to join or something.

  • Her: Good morning :) Did you see the fireworks and all that yesterday down at the junction after the game?

This text came two days later. She's obviously not satisfied that I didn't answer her last text (and why would I?), so she comes up with some bullshit excuse to keep talking to me.

  • Me: Sure, that junction is always the place where hell breaks loose.

Once more I just answer briefly, not trying to keep the conversation going. Those are usually the kind of answers women often give their beta orbiters.

  • Her: I was there with my friend Sarah yesterday just to see if rumors were true... they are... :D

  • Her: And we're doing something on saturday?

Same thing as before: She sees that I'm not bothering to keep the conversation alive, so she has to come up with some stupid shit to get my attention.

  • Me: How does that sound: You'll come over to my place, we'll buy some groceries, and you get the chance to demonstrate your cooking skills. We'll watch a film after that.

After she's basically just tried for the second time to make sure that we're really meeting on saturday, I just thought, fuck it. I was gonna take her to some cafe first, but at that moment it seemed to be a waste of my time. She's obviously so fucking into me that I don't even need that, so I tell her to come to my place to "watch a movie" instead. Also note that I'm basically telling her she's got to qualify by making a nice dinner.

  • Her: Show you my cooking skills? :D we'll see ;) but that sounds like a good plan. I'll be able to meet my sister beforehand then.

A little backlash to my neg here, but that was to be expected. She's happy with my plan and if nothing goes wrong, I'll fuck her on staturday.

I realize that was quit in depth and long, but maybe some of the new guys here got a glimpse at how much information you can get from analyzing her text messages. I know exactly where I stand with her, and I've even been able to adjust my plans, just because of what I've read between the lines. There often is a lot of hate against "overanalyzing" women, and in some cases I agree, but if you know what you're doing it can also be a very helpful tool.

Let me guys know what you think of the idea of making a sticky with those kinds of posts, maybe we can ask the mods to make one.