The text game guide has been great, but I have a far greater problem in all my interactions with potential plates: Figuring out where to meet up.

I've asked this question before, and the first response I receive tends to be "don't overthink it". Right, I understand that, but realize that I have next to no experience. My response to "don't overthink it" or "follow your gut" might be something like "hey so your pussy looks super tight, want to come over so we can both loosen up a bit?" As in, short of inviting a girl over, I just have zero ideas.

The second response tends to be "just grab drinks". Right, but I'm 19.

An alpha leads, but an alpha must lead well: It's pointless for me to drop a random pin on Google Maps and tell the girl to meet me there ("oh and wear something slutty"). In order for me to feel confident in setting the time and place, I need some practical knowledge on what time and place will be optimal, and so I turn to you, my RP brothers.

I understand that the optimal location is highly situational. You're both tourists in a new city? Explore something you heard about together. You're both alcoholics? Cool, me too! Go on a bar run together.

Ultimately, I would like my game to be at a point where I know just where we should go, baby. But until then, I'd really love to hear where you guys meet up with a girl the first time. Coming in from a previous interaction, it's easy to build off shared experience, but coming in cold... I'm clueless. So what are your tips?

And yes, this was prompted by a specific situation: I'm flying back home this weekend, and I want to meet up with a girl I barely know but have had some experiences with at parties when I was at high school. That is, I practically have no idea what she's like, but she's a hard 8 and she's interested in me. So I gotta try something.