why do men fetishize asexuality?

EviessVeralan · 2023-01-31T13:16:37+00:00

Being a virgin doesn't necessarily make you asexual.

Fit-Faithlessness149 · 2023-01-31T11:05:15+00:00

Probably for the same reason that women fetishize height. It fulfills a psychological need that has been bred into us over generations.

InkieForBeingCurry · 2023-01-31T11:09:43+00:00

If a man is a virgin what is wrong with him wanting a virgin over someone who was pleasuring Chad while he was rotting away?

LIGMAMALEINC · 2023-01-31T11:02:55+00:00

Thinking virginal woman are all asexual low libido prudes and high n count women are all high libido sex goddesses is a common misconception and bluepill cope.

JLb0498 · 2023-01-31T11:28:39+00:00

Who ever told you that men prefer asexual women? Man prefer virgins, and virginity ≠ asexuality. You don't have to be asexual to be a virgin.

infinitofluxo · 2023-01-31T13:57:16+00:00

It is not about "not having sex", it is about wanting long-term relationships, which makes your body count low. If you want to marry someone, there is no way that a past of dozens/hundreds of sexual partners could mean anything positive, it just means that person is not very fond of LTRs or have a sexual demand that a single partner can't suffice.

The person could claim that nobody wanted to have a relationship with them and they ended up on a streak of having casual sex after a few dates with people that vanished after, which might mean they either pick the wrong people or are really unwanted as a partner by most people sexually attracted to them. Basically "I had a lot of sexual partners but did not like it, I was just trying to make someone fall in love with me" but it is still doesn't mean anything positive, as I said.

A person that is still a virgin and looking for a partner after a certain age is just weird, and a man that demands that his new 35yo wife must be a virgin is mentally deranged, he basically is demanding that the woman must have been rejected her whole life or has psychological problems that lead her to avoid trying to get in relationships.

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-01-31T11:57:27+00:00

What are you talking about.....no seriously what the fuck are you actually talking about? For you virgin=asexual? And to be okay with someone means that you re fetishizing them? Whats next? do men who dont want transwomen are fetishizing biological women now? What a ridiculous charade.

HowdyY4LL · 2023-01-31T14:25:45+00:00

From 16-20 as a man, all of my partners had 20+ bodies. I myself have 20+ bodies. I now have a house and a car and a good job. I come with no bills or kids and the house and car are paid off. I prefer my women unfucked now since I no longer need women I want them unfucked or at LEAST 5 or less bodies for marriage.

Peacesquad · 2023-01-31T16:41:50+00:00

We don’t?

SilentFroggy · 2023-01-31T12:58:10+00:00

They don’t. They want a virgin that will enjoy it with them only. But the reality is that’s not going to happen because most men aren’t sexually attractive enough.

_Duriel_1000_ · 2023-01-31T23:33:18+00:00

virgin != low sex drive... are you insane??

Ambassadior · 2023-02-01T00:34:25+00:00

Think about it logically,

Who are you more likely to sustain a ltr with, the woman who has been through many men, or the one who's been with none.

People get attached, women who have been with many guys are a flight risk. Men have this preference for better chances at long term bonding.

MicrosoftOSX · 2023-02-01T10:07:58+00:00

I believe it is evolution’s doing. Men who prefer virgins will have a much higher probability of passing down his genes. Its like babies evolved to be attached to their care takers. The ones dont form attachment most likely wouldn’t survive. It is wrong and evil to say a preference in virgin to be a fetish, demonizing the preference. Women prefer capable men, and this is exactly the same case.

Ok-District-1244 · 2023-02-01T19:03:25+00:00

I think most men never gave a shit until someone wronged them. I personally don’t care how many people a lady has been with. But I know that the higher it is the more likely she will be to cheat on me. It’s not some guttural reaction we have it’s a learned behavior in reaction to a pattern many many of us have encountered.

red__hulk · 2023-02-02T11:03:22+00:00

Short answer: Some young men are virgin and have a hard time getting dates so the would prefer a partner with similar experience. Having to deal with a woman that has a bodycount north of 3 or 5 while youre a virgin at similar age is probably pretty intimidating.

Last-Post2085 · 2023-02-03T09:43:40+00:00

A virgin would be nice, as they are inexperienced and you can teach them. One who has had 10+ men may be expecting a specific level of competency.

WhiteGuar · 2023-02-04T00:45:01+00:00

Rascals claim the virginity of dozens of women who are then left to rot and nobody beats an eye. Virgin male dreams of marrying a virgin girl like him that he may even ever meet and we get threads like this.

Title	why do men fetishize asexuality?
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Date	January 31, 2023 10:54 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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