As we have all noticed, the #NotAllMen brigade have come out in full force after the murder of Sarah Everard by a male police officer. I usually ignore men's mouth garbage but today I am fed up and angry and I have a couple things to say.

  1. Not all men, well, obviously. No one is saying that every single man on the planet is a predator. Not all men - that goes without saying. So why do they feel the need to say it? Oh right, to derail the conversation and attempt to silence women who are courageous enough to speak up about the violence that men have inflicted upon them. Why are they so angry and afraid to hear women speaking up? Because they are exactly that kind of man. Not to mention they never emotionally/psychologically developed past age 4 because clearly, everything needs to be about them and if it's not, they'll throw a tantrum.
  2. "Not all men". But when I say I refuse to date a man that watches porn that may or may not be rape, beats his dick to girls who look not a day over 15 years old, etc., etc., then it's "all men do that" and "you're going to end up alone if you don't lower your standards". Which is it boys? You can't have it both ways. Your mental gymnastics fool no one.

"Not all men" who gives a shit. As far as I'm concerned, every man is a potential predator until proven otherwise. Because I value my heart, my body, and my life more than any man's feelings.