More women have been used and abused by men, but one ex-girlfriend “breaks his heart” years ago and he’s emotionally unavailable or decides to use women from then on. I’ve seen this in dating quite a few times, and then I end up feeling jealous over the ex who he did more for, and was emotionally available for. Why are men like this over a breakup whereas women, who have probably been through more when it comes to men, still want to seek and find real love?