It literally always boils down to this:

Them: Patriarchy!

Me: Where?

Them: It's everywhere it holds us down!

Me: But I don't feel like a victim. I've never feel like I was getting the worse off deal by being a woman. I've never been treated badly because I was a woman.

... And then the conversation devolves really quickly because it just turns into one woman telling another woman why she should feel like a victim for just being a woman. These conversations are so ridiculous between two women.

Since this is a men's advocates group I would really like to hear from other women who have experienced this