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[–]Crimson_D82 113 points114 points  (7 children)

How do I put this....

You fucked up when you called his dad a shitlord and kept referring to his faimly as shitlords. You did it to yourself you dumbass.

[–]SuperUppercut 76 points77 points  (5 children)

If I ever hear a woman use the term shitlord IRL I will immediately relegate her to insane bitch status.

[–]Coinin 238 points239 points  (10 children)

Bullet. Dodged.

[–]5F42DE47BC 95 points96 points  (8 children)

Looks like he took the bullet, he'll just survive.

Proposing to this kind of woman is not a victory.

[–]Aavagadrro 52 points53 points  (4 children)

If they did get married, the divorce is inevitable since she wants to control everything including him. That shit doesnt work unless you have a guy that enjoys submission, or at least allows himself to be submissive to her rather than equal.

[–]Coinin 26 points27 points  (1 child)

He's not married to her, I'd call that a major escape. Imagine if he realised all this after he'd tied the knot.

[–][deleted] 50 points51 points  (7 children)

This is why I honestly pity a whole lot of SRSters. There seems to be a new post every week about "my friends/family/significant other are shitlords and now they won't spend time with me". They go through life looking for things to get offended over, and then get offended that no one but them is taking offense. Its a cycle that just turns you into a terrible person that nobody wants to be around, as we saw here.

Hopefully this person does a lot of soul searching and realizes how her behavior was the cause of the breakup, not his. When she realizes that, she'll be well on the road to becoming an attractive human being again.

[–]Aavagadrro 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hopefully this person does a lot of soul searching and realizes how her behavior was the cause of the breakup, not his.

Fat chance, she will just get her hooks into someone else, tell a sob story of how she was abused by this guy and his dad, and then left at the altar so he could throw a party and fuck girls that like old cars.

[–][deleted] 40 points41 points  (5 children)

It's interesting that in the last few weeks, I have seen two posts (this is the second) regarding SRSWomen and their boyfriends leaving them because "they've changed". One woman specifically stated that it was only after she got in on the SRS circlejerk that her boyfriend said that she had become more hostile, etc and dumped her ass.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (3 children)

ow do you have a link to that one? These are good reads.

[–]RedditBlueit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's almost like that emo porn some chicks like. Boy meets girl. Girl meets SRS. Boy takes Red Pill. Bullet is dodged.

[–][deleted] 34 points35 points  (11 children)

i'd be iffy on marrying someone who called my dead father a "shitlord" too.

[–]VoodooIdol 10 points11 points  (9 children)

I don't know... my dad is pretty much a dickface (reference: I'm 44 and my opinion of him really hasn't changed much because he's actually a racist, sexist, amazingly stupid person) - I encourage people to make jokes at his expense.

[–]TerribleAtPuns 5 points6 points  (1 child)

So imagine its someone constantly enthralled with your father's every word calling him a "man other men should strive to be". Only it's worse since that kind of malarkey gets thrown around at funerals no matter who it was whereas she was just spewing angry vile things about a beloved.

[–]123vasectomy 201 points202 points  (57 children)

Dear God I'm going to suffocate on the the privilege!! Especially in the first one, she talks to/about him like he's a child or a pet, none of his opinions or feelings matter. How silly of him to want to keep momentos from his (shitlord) father's life?! What a silly senseless manz!

[–]MergeTheBands 73 points74 points  (4 children)

Best thing to do right after someone's father dies is shit on their hobbies and tell them their father was a "shitlord", all while asking for him to sell his father's old belongings! PERFECT.

[–]Coinin 50 points51 points  (3 children)

All to fund something she wants.

[–]baskandpurr 39 points40 points  (1 child)

Not even something that has real value. They would be able to sell the cars at any point in the future, they may even become more valuable. The money spent on that wedding would be lost. Her plan is to sell lots valuable stuff so that one day all about herself is even more impressive to her friends.

[–]jimbolauski 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How misogynistic of her to expect the man to pay for everything.

[–]Coinin 74 points75 points  (17 children)

I'd love to know what the supposedly misogynistic music was.

[–]ToraZalinto 74 points75 points  (8 children)

Dude looks like a lady!

[–]christopherologist 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Fat bottom girls

[–]kyoujikishin 18 points19 points  (1 child)

great balls of fire?

[–]Coinin 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh my god she's right! Aren't "ovaries of fire" just as great? I guess not!

[–]Coinin 21 points22 points  (3 children)

Great song, and I always thought the start of the music video was a nice bit of queer-power.

[–]ottawadeveloper 20 points21 points  (2 children)

I am amused whenever people call that song misogynistic since it's clearly about a man who is surprised by a woman having a penis and it seems like he then goes on to enjoy the experience none the less (as evidenced by "do me... do me, doo ME, DOOO MEEE").

[–]Coinin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is that what he says? I always thought it was "Dooby dooby dooby over here," like "Dance on over honey."

I guess it's misogynistic if you buy into the whole "femmephobia" thing, which I don't.

Aerosmith is boss :)

[–]rykocolor 104 points105 points  (29 children)

I feel like part of the problem is so many men let it get this bad.

Most likely this lady didn't just wake up one day and start treating him like an inferior piece of shit. More likely, she did it and he took it for a long time. Men, especially young men (like yours truly) really need to learn to accept red flags no matter how sexy or fun a girl can be.

[–]duglock 22 points23 points  (3 children)

I feel like part of the problem is so many men let it get this bad.

It does happen and in fact happened to me. When I was married my grandmother died and my then wife came home and found me upset. She got extremely angry and told me "People die everyday, get over it". At the time I was too in shock for it to register just how fucked up that was.

[–]ottawadeveloper 13 points14 points  (2 children)

I agree, completely. Men are taught to suck it up and deal with it and it leads to them shoving it down until they explode like this.

If they had worked out their issues to ensure she's respecting his hobbies and doesn't feel like he's being rude to her, then it might be better.

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (10 children)

Her bullshit is NOT his fault.

What you're saying is akin to blaming a rape on the victim

Rereading my post sounds a little harsh. My point is that "him letting it get that far" puts some of the blame on him, when none of it should be his fault. His dad just died, FFS.

heartless bitch is heartless. And BFless

[–]Aavagadrro 16 points17 points  (5 children)

There is a point to what rykocolor said, and the point is not to just settle for someone and endure the bullshit they dump on you. I have an ex who is quite a bit like the WOSAO who wrote that. It was my fault for staying with her when the irrational fights over nothing started. It was my fault she got knocked up, because I should have broomed her the first time she started a fight over nothing.

Sure, my ex is to blame for being abusive, disloyal, vindictive, shiftless, and expecting the entire world to hand her everything she wants on a silver platter. It is my fault I stayed with her and had kids with her. I should have done what this guy did, dumped her ass and had a party to celebrate losing 140lbs of ugly fat.

[–]alaysian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While it might seem to be victim blaming, its only because life is far from black in white. You are saying a victim has no power. Under that pretense telling them that they have to power to change their situation might appear to be blaming them.

To me, who believes that victims do have to power to change their situation, telling them they can is trying to empower them to protect themselves.

I'm not sure who is right, but understand, we don't say shit like that to blame them. We want them to be able to learn from their mistakes, and the mistakes of others.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah - trying to force him to get rid of them two weeks after his dad died. What a fucked up move on her part. I don't think there's much else she could have done to a) ignore his feelings b) alienate him c) be a complete and utter cunt.

It'd be like my husband insisting the same when my dad dies - he's still got the Hurricane, the first motorbike he got after my sister and I were born (I was in my early teens when he bought it) and it holds a LOT of good memories. He's also still got the ER5 my husband sold to him after he decided he couldn't ride it any more. The Hurricane had broken down, dad needed a new bike, hubby needed to sell... it worked. And he's also got one tiny little car - the Mazda 121 that had been his mother's.

Imagine that; having a fiancé who'd want me to sell them with all their emotional attachments for all that they're inanimate objects.

What a cunt.

[–]mdoddr 143 points144 points  (22 children)

Typical nut bag feminist. You think she ever would have described her ideal man as "works on cars, drinks whiskey straight, rides a motor cycle, slaps himself if he starts to show emotion over his fathers death."? NEVER. But that's the type of guy she goes out with, gets engaged to, and begs to stay with her.

[–]Jovial_Gorilla 68 points69 points  (6 children)

Right. Also probably the type that hates those "evil" nice guys because they remind her that she wants a masculine man.

[–]redpillschool 26 points27 points  (6 children)

And no doubt, that's a man. She would never admit to wanting that sort of man, but that's the type of man who gets ladies. Heck, that's the kind of man I aspire to be.

[–]perfectd3 36 points37 points  (5 children)

One of my ex's I broke up with almost two years ago was like this. She claimed that she was going to go better places in life because she had the better grades in school, and that I wasn't worthy of being with her. Two weeks later, she finds a rebound boyfriend, gets hooked onto drugs, and pretty much goes down hill. Some of my friends overheard her talking with her best friend on how much she wanted me back, and she approached me after a month and said she had a drug problem. I just said, "It wasn't my problem." and left.

When I get together with my new girlfriend a little over a month later, she calls me up and says she might be pregnant, and that we would need to get back together. I straight up told her "I would rather pay child support the rest of my life than spend another hell with you"

My family called her "Drill sergeant 'x'" because she tried to be so controlling.


Props to this guy for getting out of her life when he did.

[–]redpillschool 27 points28 points  (4 children)

It's astounding how commonly women use the whole pregnancy scare tactic. Have some god damned honor.

[–]alaysian 6 points7 points  (3 children)

Honor is the bullshit fed to men to make them do what women want.

Of course, I'd rather have a world with honor than without, but I'm not surprised that women never jumped in that boat themselves.

[–]5th_Law_of_Robotics 15 points16 points  (1 child)

Ideologies based on rejecting biology rarely lead to healthy and happy individuals.

It's just a variant of the "sex is evil and shameful!" mantra other religions impose.

Sex is ok, but not with a man and certainly not a masculine man. That is evil and shameful.

They're told to be ashamed by their ideology and to go for it by their biology. No wonder they're so irritable.

[–][deleted] 51 points52 points  (1 child)

"toxic ideology"

Heh, one of the best parts. Sounds like he's been annoyed by her radfem crap for a while, and this was too much to shrug off.

[–]NiftyDolphin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this was too much to shrug off.

I grok that. I think he could stand with her shitting on father. I think it's that she decided to shit on the memory of his father that pushed him over the edge.

[–]McFeely_Smackup 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If I gave a shit what SRS thought, I'd take the time to rewrite this post with the pronouns reversed and instead of " dads cars and motorcycles" it would have been deceased mother's Hummel figurine and unicorn paintings...then see what SRS thought about it.

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

he needs

this wasn't an option

he doesn't need

he needs to get rid of this stuff

he needs to come back

I'm fed up with his shit

Oh, my goodness.

[–]SuperUppercut 69 points70 points  (5 children)

"All I know is I'm fed up with his shit."

"I've never seen him so depressed and I can't believe I helped do this to him."

"I've been up all night crying and don't know what to do. I was getting married next year and now I've got to find a place to live and I'm single."

The evolution of a self-centered bitch. Dude is lucky he didn't get married to her.

[–]Always_Doubtful 25 points26 points  (2 children)

Yea he would of lost his dad's cars to that bitch if they got divorced.

[–]Lasagna13 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I popped a blood vessel in my head when she called his dad's car a 60s piece of shit and how he should sell it for their wedding.

[–]weasel-like 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Just read all of the uses of "I" "me" and "my" in those posts. Really says a lot.

[–]Hateblade 21 points22 points  (0 children)

What is it about horrible and controlling women and them INSISTING that you abandon your entire life prior as soon as they get their claw hooks into you?

I only read the first post and the last sentence about her being alone and crying. Good!

edit ~ Read the rest. At least one of us read all the signs correctly and took the exit to freedom. Good for you.

[–]Deansdale 132 points133 points  (17 children)

I've been up all night crying and don't know what to do. I was getting married next year and now I've got to find a place to live and I'm single. I don't know what to do.

Go fuck yourself :)

Or try to imagine how would you feel if your mother would die and your fiance told you "it's fine she was a bitch anyways".

Stupid feminist cunt believing she has every right to fully micromanage a man's life against his will just because she has the magical vagina. Good for the guy to have the balls to get away from an abusive relationship like this.

[–][deleted] 47 points48 points  (2 children)

And you have to get rid of all that shit she collected her entire life ASAP.

[–][deleted] 38 points39 points  (1 child)

For money, to pay for our wedding, in which I will be in complete control of the venue, food, guest list, and entertainment.

[–]AboVeritas 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This sounded like a big thing to me. You sell your recently-deceased father's cars he (and probably you and your brother) worked on your entire lives that you love for something I care about.

That was a clear sign of a leech that's been left to feed on you for far too long.

[–]murphymc 79 points80 points  (2 children)

If I had a guess, his brother's probably been telling him this for a long time and he just finally saw it.

[–]alaysian 9 points10 points  (0 children)

God I wish my brother would have fucking listened. Now he's stuck dealing with his gf because they had a kid back in June.

[–]theJigmeister 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's not "I've been up crying all night because I really fucked up and made my fiancé feel like shit when he needed support," it's "Now I'm single and have to cover the bills, oh woe is me." It seems to have taken her two weeks to even recognize that her fiancé's feelings even matter.

[–]SuperUppercut 39 points40 points  (6 children)

"Try to imagine how would you feel if your mother would die and your fiance told you "it's fine she was a bitch anyways".

This. Bitch has a complete lack of empathy.

[–]AboVeritas 32 points33 points  (5 children)

Empathy? What are you, a moron? Men don't have feelings.

[–]Aavagadrro 14 points15 points  (4 children)

If they do have feelings they arent worth dating, they are only to be used for what they can give you while firmly in the friend zone.

[–]RiffyDivine 5 points6 points  (3 children)

Untill you grow a backbone and tell them to piss off. Took me years to get to that point and man did I feel better after I said it.

[–]Aavagadrro 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Exactly, but you have nobody to blame but yourself for staying with those types of people.

edit. We have nobody to blame but ourselves.

[–]5th_Law_of_Robotics 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I've been up all night crying and don't know what to do.

So she's grieving and crying and emotionally unsound at this very moment?

Quick someone call her a shitlord abuser and tell her to check her privilege.

Seems fair.

[–]RedditBlueit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey Fish! Miss the bicycle yet?

[–][deleted] 75 points76 points  (22 children)

I didn't realise she posted a third and final part to this but I am thorougly glad he saw sense. Hopefully he stays far away from her, forever.

[–]ToraZalinto 57 points58 points  (19 children)

She didn't see any sense. She is still acting as if she's the victim. "He broke up with me and threw a party! sob"

[–]typhonblue 56 points57 points  (6 children)

The party is probably a wake.

So it's more like "He broke up with me and threw a wake for his father who he'd been grieving terribly! MISOGYNIST!"

[–][deleted] 34 points35 points  (5 children)

My reaction to family deaths is usually to get drunk. I don't think I'm exactly alone on that.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Definitely not.

[–]murphymc 14 points15 points  (0 children)

More broadly, escapism is pretty normal during grief. Doesn't always have to be some kind of intoxicant, I went to the Bronx Zoo (I find a good zoo very relaxing) when my mother passed.

[–]lazydonovan 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I wish I had done that at my Grandfather's funeral. Would've been better than having everyone come up to me and offer condolences.

[–]kaesylvri 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I find it hilarious she assumed it was a party.

Why not inquire if it's a proper wake instead? It seems he didn't even have a chance to BEGIN the closure and grief process, and in my family, someone dies, you crank the music and celebrate the life to commemorate the death.

[–][deleted] 38 points39 points  (2 children)

She can go rot. My concern is for him.

[–]ToraZalinto 8 points9 points  (1 child)

I thought you said "she saw sense". My bad.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No worries, I've made much more embarrassing cock-ups at much more important times. :P

[–]CaptainChewbacca 8 points9 points  (5 children)

She said 'I can't believe I did this to him'. She knows she dun goofed.

[–]TerribleAtPuns 18 points19 points  (4 children)

No no no, she says in the second one that she can't believe she helped do this to him. Even now it's not her fault, she just helped. Someone or something else she shouldn't have helped is what's really responsible.

[–]CaptainChewbacca 4 points5 points  (3 children)

Well, I imagine a lot of the depression is the father dying. She helped make it worse.

[–]Lagkiller 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hopefully he stays far away from her, forever.

Hopefully EVERYONE stays far away from her, forever.

[–]ENTP 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Also, let's hope she doesn't get the idea to claim rape/abuse.

[–]5th_Law_of_Robotics 66 points67 points  (12 children)

Sounds like he dodged a major bullet.

If he'd waited too long instead of having a party he'd be signing over most of his stuff to her.

This guy needs to work on maintaining seamless alibis and documenting every interaction with her. Her posts just scream "false rape allegation" in the future.

As for her I can see this going two ways. 1) she can spend some time thinking about what she did to warrant this, maybe rethink her choice of friends and politics and slowly work on becoming a decent person with a chance of happiness in the future. Or 2) she can double down on the crazy, decide he left her because he's a shitlord who hates proud independent womyn, spend the rest of her life convincing herself that she was abused and just barely escaped with her life and ultimately die alone (not counting the dozens of cats feasting on her still warm corpse).

I hope she goes with option 1. Experience says option 2 is more likely.

[–]Aavagadrro 17 points18 points  (0 children)

spend the rest of her life convincing herself that she was abused and just barely escaped with her life

That is the option my ex took, although she found a desperate sap who was stupid enough to marry her. My ex still claims I abused her, yet I never hit her and only ever defended myself, and I never started a fight with her. I was the one with the cuts, bruises, and she was the one cheating and blowing money like it was water. Yet I am the abusive one.

Part of me wants to show her what abuse actually is, let her taste the full fury of what she was poking through the cage all those years. The rational side of me knows I will go to jail, and end up with a huge legal hassle even if I only hit her once and not very hard. She was able to hit me with impunity, and I would love to show her what it feels like.

I wont though. I am not a psychotic asshole that is so self absorbed that I cant think of anyone but myself. In short, I am not her.

[–]dinky_hawker 8 points9 points  (1 child)

"someone save my life tonight."

[–][deleted] 31 points32 points  (4 children)

I like how she only tries to apply her notion of "dealing with things", him throwing a party could just as easy be his brothers idea. Or maybe he wanted to be surrounded by people that make him happy.

It was clear that the girl resented or disliked the father and the fact that she tried to get him to sell all the stuff still connecting him to the father to fund her wedding (nice 50/50 empowered feminism there) is just redic.

The OP is so obviously self absorbed its untrue most likely a narcissist

[–]murphymc 30 points31 points  (2 children)

How evil do you have to be to not just ask, but demand that your fiance sell everything associated with their recently deceased parent to help fund a wedding.

[–]crashline 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Also, even if the dude was a fucking douchebag...you don't fucking say that right after he dies. Damn. Show some tact!

[–]ignatiusloyola 14 points15 points  (1 child)

Wow. What a terrible person. I couldn't imagine being engaged to a person like that.

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

No matter how sucessful the men's rights movement is or will be... it hopefully helps men to end abusive/bad relationships. This is where anecdata is helpful.

[–]buster2209 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Red pill overload...

[–]downvoted_by_lefties 51 points52 points  (5 children)

Omg, he had a Romney poster in his front yard! Sexist confirmed!

[–]AboVeritas 40 points41 points  (1 child)

It could've been a Josef Mengele poster for all I care- You (a mere fiancée to the family) taking it down "immediatelly after the funeral" is cannon-balling yourself over the line.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right there would have been heavy evidence to break it off in my mind.

[–]hcirtsafonos 31 points32 points  (1 child)

"I took it down right after the funeral"

That shows him! Thinks she's a saint, but is such a fucking cunt.

[–]thetheist 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Strangely, that was the part that made me the most upset. I personally was not a supporter of Romney, but this was atrocious behavior. Can you imagine if somebody went out right after you died, and tried to erase you from history?

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fighting on the front lines of the war against women.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Way to go for standing up to that lunatic.

[–]NiggerJew944[S] 64 points65 points  (5 children)

I remember this fondly. Being chained to one of the harpies from SRS women must truly be a fate worse than death. Thank God he had his cis scum eyes opened before it was to late.

[–]Greasy 51 points52 points  (4 children)

FYI, it might be a good idea in the future to submit /r/MensRights links under a different username. Gotta keep our public appearance in mind.

[–]MechPlasma 46 points47 points  (1 child)

Public appearance? I'd say NJ should use a different username anyway, just so that they'd be taken more seriously, but I don't think anyone who bases the entire MRM on one person's username is really worth much.

[–]giegerwasright 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think true brilliance can only come from someone savvy enough to deliver it through the intellectual shit test of a handle like "Niggerjew". He could actually he a black jew. You don't know. Don't you judge him. Check your privilege. Shitlord.

[–]Sebatron 16 points17 points  (1 child)

"Car Culture" (which in my one experience at a car show, is a hobby with deep rooted sexism)

If she said something along similar lines about 'black culture' (or however you want to describe it), SRS would shit bricks.

he's pretty resistant to [the idea of selling his dead father's cars]

Of course he doesn't like the idea of selling the biggest remaining link to a dead loved one, what did you expect?

[–]Jovial_Gorilla 28 points29 points  (1 child)

SRS and feminism: ruining relationships since their inception. I love how it's still about her at the end and not the poor man that lost his father.

[–]Aavagadrro 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Men dont matter, check your privilege. The only thing men are good for is a paycheck so she can stay home when she isnt out shopping.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I also love how she told him emphatically that keeping his father's house to rent and awesome garage full of cars wasn't an option. They're not even married yet and she's already making his financial decisions. If they got married, I wonder how much of his money he would be allowed to spend each week on stuff he likes.

[–]jimmybrite 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This bitch is insane, good for him dumping that sack of unsupportive self-centered shit.

[–]Victory_Disease 22 points23 points  (4 children)

Is this for real? It seems a little too perfect, a little too blatant. Some of it just comes far too close to self awareness (e.g. the line about him "actually using finger-quotes!" around the phrase "problematic").

I want to believe.

[–]Grubnar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He and his brother are mourning their father, spending time together in their father's space, working together on a car he loved, comforting each other, and you march in, start shouting, throw things and attack his father because... why exactly? They were listening to music and had yet to take down smutty calendars? If you're not a troll, you sound really manipulative, selfish, and cruel. These cars clearly have a lot of sentimental value for him, they're his inheritance, and you seem awfully eager to sell them immediately so you can afford a big fancy party. Here's a tip: If you find you have to sell cars in order to fund a wedding, scale back your fucking wedding.

Comment by "ladystranger", with close to two hundred upvotes. Kinda said all that needed to be said.

[–]Nesman64 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Smells trollish to me. Hard to say.

[–]GeorgeGordonByron 6 points7 points  (0 children)

not all the time, but a lot of the time, when someone is full of shit they'll downplay what they did or change the story. but the way the planets aligned (abusive behavior, lack of self awareness, throwaway account) make this story highly unlikely.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (4 children)

I'm deeply amused by this, I have to wonder if she'll change her ways after this, she did sound genuinely like she realized she'd fucked up.

[–]SuperUppercut 18 points19 points  (3 children)

No she sounds like she's experiencing loss, she doesn't sound like she's taking any accountability for treating her boyfriend like shit.

[–]TerribleAtPuns 9 points10 points  (2 children)

Yeah, paying attention to the way she is saying and framing these events makes it pretty damn clear that she still thinks she's the victim.

[–]Aavagadrro 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Women are ALWAYS the victim.... at least some try to tell themselves that. Definitely all of them in SRS are percieved victims.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed, also that when she was saying to him at the dad's house after she finally caught up to him that she was there for him and all this.. it sounded like she was insincere and only saying it so that he'd come back to her.

[–]HumanMob 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fucking tragedy.

[–]AboVeritas 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Oh dude, halfway down the 3'rd paragraph, I need a fucking smoke.

[–]doublemintben 6 points7 points  (3 children)

Link to the throwaway account: http://www.reddit.com/user/throwaway4587212

the comments on her posts have been removed but you can see some of her replies from the account

[–]JoopJoopSound 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus christ, she is a bigot

[–]adamwizzy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your father sucks. Your brother sucks. Sell all your fathers beloved stuff. Spend the money on ME!!!!

[–]lovelogicrainbows 11 points12 points  (5 children)

This is too small for me to read; can someone help me out?

[–]NiggerJew944[S] 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Give me a sec.

Edit: Never mind the originals have been deleted so I can't re upload. Just hit ctrl + until it is large enough to read.

[–]ToraZalinto 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ctrl mousewheel if you want to be cool about it.

[–]Coinin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you click on the images they expand. Not sure if you'd already done this.

[–]AnnArchist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Posts to srsanything.

Best thing to never happen to him

[–]oneiorosgrip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It takes a sick, sad, sorry person to make anyone's grieving process - much less that of a supposed loved one - all about herself.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sell your dad's classic cars that will be around forever so we can have one day of an expensive wedding... Yah Get your shit and get out.... lol

[–]ottawadeveloper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The most amusing part of this is the first entry, where she generalizes people who own cars and like them, and people who have pinups of women to be misogynistic. Last I checked, there are lots of women who keep pinups of men (firefighter calendar anyone?). Enjoyment of the other sex's physical appearance is not misogynistic in and of itself. Nor is OWNING CARS.

[–]TheRealPariah 6 points7 points  (5 children)

If I had to guess, it took him being put into an already battered state for him to realize this person treated him like garbage. I have no doubt that this was how most issues were handled and it took something like his father dying to realize his partner generally treated him like garbage and seemingly doesn't care about his wants or needs. This woman actually types out a response whose main theme is "woe is me" "what about me" after her fiancé's father died without realizing how selfish, self-centered, and callous she was being. Her final post is not, "I fucked something up which was good by making my fiancé feel like shit when I should have been supportive," it's, "I am single now and have to pay the bills."

I'm glad this happened before they tied the knot. Hopefully he writes this person off and finds someone who actually cares about him and his needs.

[–]seriesoftubesguy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Women are emotionally more sensitive than men.

My hairy ass.

[–]razzertto 11 points12 points  (3 children)

I'd like to point out that almost every single commenter who replied to this poster was CRITICAL of her behavior. Telling her that SHE WAS WRONG. See the cached versions of the page for more info.

[–]Mr5306 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What the hell is wrong with these people...

[–]csgardner 3 points4 points  (1 child)

The originals have been deleted? Aw, I wanted to see the comments.

[–]scottishonion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good lord, this is the kind of woman that gives the rest of us a bad name. Geeze, to pull this shit after his Dad passed away? How much more banal can you get?

[–]TeaDrinkingBarbarian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That guy is the hero /r/MensRights needs.

[–]scramtek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, I know your father' just died. The man you've known since the day you were born.
But what about me? I've known you a couple of years and, despite almost marrying another man, you really need to put your priorities in order. And that means selling every connection to your father and spending the proceeds on me.

It's what every man should want.....?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I don't think I'm alone when I say that I'd like to hear more about these cars and motorcycles...got any pics?

[–]SuperUppercut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Guaranteed that SRS is calling this guy a master shitlord for leaving his abusive ex-girlfriend.

[–]MadKat88 3 points4 points  (1 child)

So glad that guy had the balls to handle that shit properly. "Sell all the cars your father left you and spend the money on me!" Holy fuck thats crazy.

[–]7wap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A woman without empathy had best develop some marketable talents, because she's not wife material.

[–]drinkthebleach 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of the replies in the actual thread was 'He was grieving and took some time off to spend with his brother, and you ran in screaming and smashed a radio. Anyone would have left you.'

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh your father died? Then you won't mind that I subvert his political views by taking the Romney poster off of his lawn... priorities!

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That guy is totally baddass, good for him it's over.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She goofed by not letting him do his thing and breathe. She should never have gone over to the pops house... it is something like following a dragon into a cave. Too bad too because the gravy train was moving full force ( he paying her bills ).

[–]weasel-like 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sell his dead father's last possessions and pay for her wedding. He works and pays the bills while she goes to school. He even offered to pay for another month for her to figure her shit out. What a patient guy!

[–]whoatethekidsthen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she was the shitlord and got exactly what her ass deserved

[–]jaheiner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I can completely appreciate that if her fiancé acts like a sexist asshole while participating in the car thing she might be upset, but to get him him that hard days after his father dies about how he needs to sell something that is a link to his memories of times w/his dad is just the biggest bitch move she could possibly have done.

Did she expect a simple "sorry" to fix the fact that a couple days after losing his father, she's telling him to sell all his memories of his father and what an asshole his dad was? FFS reverse the roles, if her mom was this huge bitch to him but she liked her mom, and then mom dies and he tells her a few days after, "you're mom was a huge cunt and you need to sell all this worthless shit that holds countless memories of the person you just lost" how the fuck would she have taken it?

[–]EKcore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good riddance

[–]shobb592 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anyone have screen caps of the comments? They've all been deleted

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is one of the most satisfying things I've read in a while.

[–]seriesoftubesguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently, he broke up with me then immediately threw a party.

Any circumstance warranting being away from her would require some kind of celebrating.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have trouble believing that isn't a troll post because of how utterly insane it is. If it is real, then she got everything she deserved. No matter what your ideology is, whether it may be right or wrong, there's and timed and a place to go pushing it, and that was so not it.

[–]fanooder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • "I go by after work to see what he is doing"
  • "I tried to call him to tell him he needs to come back so we can settle this"
  • "the bike he took isn't in the shop (I looked through the window this morning)"
  • "I wasn't sure if I should go try to find him, but eventually decided to. I got over to his father's house around 2AM
  • "I followed him outside to the bike. I put my arms around his neck and begged him to stay"
  • "Later that night I drove by his father's house to try and talk to him"

This is controlling, abusive bullshit and (at least) borderline stalking behavior.

  • "Hell he had a Romney poster in his front yard (which I took down immediately after the funeral)"
  • "I'm pretty adverse to him owning these things since it would likely cause him to go back into the "Car Culture" ... It's a waste of time and money ... I don't want to park my car outside"
  • "I've been trying to convince my fiance that he needs to sell his half of the cars and we can use the money to pay for our wedding"
  • "I told him, emphatically, that this wasn't an option"
  • "There's a song on the cassette deck saying something incredibly sexist, those nasty calendars are still on the wall, and I was just enraged. I took the tape out of the player and threw it in the trash. ... I told him that he needs to get rid of this stuff"
  • "I told him... how his behavior and his dismissing my concerns over the last week is wholly unacceptable."
  • "All I know is that I'm fed up with his shit."
  • "won't engage when I call him or go over to his father's house to see him"
  • "Apparently, he broke up with me and then immediately threw a party."
  • "I was getting married next year and now I've got to find a place to live and I'm single."

Translation:

Me.

ME.

MEEEEEE!!!

Fucking narcissist.

  • "I put my arms around his neck and begged him to stay. He seemed to think about it for a second, then said that he couldn't start the bike if I was standing that close."

Atta boy.