In a completely free world where men and women could make choices, due to the sex drive difference, hormonal difference that makes women value emotional connections more than men, and economy where certain men have more resources monetarily and status wise, women of course will go for the best options consistently.

Wouldn't you? Would you give, for example, uglier girls a chance, if you could get any hot girl easily every day? Before, men could control women in a way, where they could block them from getting certain resources, creating societies/religions that enforce certain restrictions, and whatever else. Without this control, men cannot have the options anymore. In a completely free market, most men will suffer. It is inevitable. There is quite literally nothing that can be done to alleviate this apart from instilling another sort of rule/regulation that was done in the past, yet that is of course now seen as morally outrageous.

What people need to realize is that there is no saving grace. Sex drives won't change. Standards won't change. Most men are quite literally bound to suffer and thanks to the technological age, will only suffer more and more as their options dwindle. Men's suicide rates are rapidly increasing due to loneliness, and as mentioned before, it can't and simply won't change. Your only option as a man is to become one of the few at the top or die trying.