This day and age, how can a Christian RP man get married?

What are Christian men actually supposed to do?

I want to smash left and right but want to keep it in Gods instruction. I don’t want to be nihilistic but marriage really does seem like a bad idea even if you are in the top 5%.

Majority of women are sluts claiming to be clean and hypergamy + plausible deniability is a force to be reckoned with.

I’m not content with becoming a eunuch but also have trouble staying patient for Gods blessing in a wife.

These are just some questions I struggle with to determine what decisions I make for the future.