My wife & I both grew up playing soccer. I don't think soccer or other team sports accomplish the goals I have for my kids. I want my kids to learn how to create their own success as an individual, where soccer/baseball/football (too many concussions anyway) are now mostly 'trophy for everyone' 'share the burden' social gatherings for lazy parents, IMO.

I want my kids to do an individual sport - tennis, swimming, for my son - wrestling or bjj. If I have an unathletic kid, I dunno - chess club or theater, I guess?

Obviously, their interests and abilities will drive which one specifically. What are some other great 'redpill' sports/activities?