How old are you and how familiar are you with RPW?

I am 25 years old and have been reading and posting on the RPW subreddit for over a year. I haven't been very active, but I read maybe half of the posts on here.

What is your relationship status?

In a LTR of 1 year, living together for about 6 months. We haven't been in a fight during that time - always have been able to discuss issues in a mature manner. Haven't had any serious issues, either.

What is the problem?

I found out that my SO has visited OKCupid. It popped up as one of his visited sites on his homepage when we were looking up furniture for our apartment. (Just to point out that no snooping was involved.) I did not ask about it at first because I wasn't sure what it was. So I said nothing, looked it up afterwards and discovered that it's a dating site ...

The only fact here is that he has visited the website. I don't know if he has a profile on there, don't know if it was just a one time visit out of curiosity, don't know if he's visited the site because he read an article about it or somebody at his work pointed out that he/she is on there and he simply peeked.

My idea is to simply ask him why he has visited that particular website. I will do so after work, this evening. Should I prepare for a shitstorm? Should I ask him other questions? I am worried that his interest in me might be fading but I really can't find a reason why ... Should I ask about that, too? I've never been in better shape. We very rarely argue. We fall asleep in each other's arms. He has his interests, I have mine. It's a very loving relationship.

How have you contributed to the problem?

N/A, because I am not even sure whether this is a problem.

How long has this been an issue?

I saw it on Friday when we were working at home together - have been fretting over it since.

What have you done to resolve this problem?

Nothing yet. I have only looked up what the site is about. I have been too busy trying to focus on work and calm myself down, because I have been cheated on in the past and I am still carrying that weight. (Especially in the form of still having nightmares about abuse and cheating.)

Before SO and I committed, I stated to him that I have been extremely hurt because of a former BF's curiosity about other women. I explained that I believe that, when you're in a committed relationship, such a kind of interest/curiosity (that has been sparked via a medium on which people can present themselves as whomever they want) is ridiculous to me, because it is easy to catch one's interest, but you do not truly know who that person is. He agreed with me.

How long have you been together?

Little over a year.

Is your relationship long-distance?

No, it has never been long-distance and we currently live together.

Do you have an active bedroom life?

Yes. To my knowledge, we are both satisfied, although my libido seems to be a little higher than his. We've never had problems relating to our bedroom life.