How I Hacked Online Dating - Amy Webb

QueenBee126 · 2017-02-15T18:47:50+00:00

I think this is a really great example of someone that is very smart and analytical, but struggles a bit when it comes to socializing (in this case, socializing online). It took her time, and a lot of research to figure out certain things that many women seem to know on an intuitive level (don't talk too much, be optimistic, show off flattering pictures).

You can immediately tell that she's confident, has a sense of humor, and can talk about a wide range of topics - but her ability to be flirtatious, alluring, youthful, fun was a bit harder for her to showcase given her personality, which is fine.

I think the biggest takeaway is that every woman has to figure out how to market herself in an appealing way, you can have an amazing list of great qualities, but if you advertise them in a lack-luster manner you'll struggle.

Also, note that she recognized that she wasn't lying about who she is as a person, she was simply packaging it in a more appealing way. She figured out a way to vet thoroughly and effectively, and I think there are a lot of things women can learn from this talk. That said, I also don't think it's necessary to go to those lengths to find a great man either haha!

Thanks for sharing, lots of great food for thought here.

QueenBee126 · 2017-02-15T17:42:09+00:00

She vetted correctly!

therewasguy · 2017-02-20T14:21:51+00:00

That's truly some next level vetting

Title	How I Hacked Online Dating - Amy Webb
Author	QueenBee126
Upvotes	19
Comments	5
Date	February 15, 2017 3:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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