Note: Hi! I've been lurking on this subreddit for a long long time. I was super resistant to the ideas at first, but gradually come to accept it, and it has totally transformed my life. I'm in the best relationship I have ever been in thanks to you ladies :) Might make a post about it in the future!

I feel kind of silly asking this question. I wouldn't even think of such a thing in my previous relationships before TRP, like I would just ask a boyfriend to hang out whenever I felt like it, and he would ask other times.

I got into an exclusive, committed relationship a little less than a month ago! :) I've been applying RPW tips the whole time, and I've never felt happier with a relationship! He has asked me out on dates, or to hang out (after becoming exclusive) this whole time, but I'm wondering if it's ok to ask him out (not on a date, just to see him since we live separately). Is it too "aggressive"? Maybe the nights he doesn't ask me out are the nights he prefers to spend alone? Like maybe if I ask to hang out, he'll say yes, but later resent the impingement upon his space?

Like of course I know it's "okay" to ask him, I'm just wondering if it's "attractive". And if it would mess with TRP principles in any way. What are your thoughts? Thanks so much for reading!