Don't let anybody tell you what to do, girl. You should only do what you feel comfortable with. Do you feel ready for this? Don't take any crap from him, you shouldn't have to do anything you're not comfortable with.

Hey, man, you really want to get what you want? You're going to have to leave your comfort zone. I know it's anxiety inducing to talk to somebody you don't know, but you're going to have to man up.